any girls regret NOT taking back an ex boyfriend who begged for her back? and now they want him back?
okay basically i wanna retype my whole story i posted earlier, but eh.. here it is in a nutshell:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ah1VqVOEwA7ScfLHuScEY8Psy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090825134253AAYvd01
basically if you read that, then come back here, you’ll understand the story..
i begged for my ex back about 3 weeks ago, we hung out, i bought her a dress, bra, flowers cookies, card, everything, dinner and groceries, she is 17 im 19 keep in mind. i was the sweeetest guy to her, but she then changed her number and told me to move on after she led me on.
now she is tellin me to move on, she already has a new bf THIS SOON after our breakup. it hurts bad. but she gets mad when i mention me being with another girl, i asked her to help me out and she said "umm well i dont wanna see you get hurt so no"
are there any girls who regret not taking their ex back after he begged, and now he is giving the world to another girl and your sad you let him slip away?
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This is a hard life lesson you need to learn.. I am sorry you feel this pain – but listen… when a female ends a relationship – the chances she has already given it her all are staggering! Normally a woman talks to a man and he perceives her as nagging or dissatisfied instead of a person with their own needs and desires that are just as valid as his… so he either dismisses her concerns, or downplays them – perhaps he reassures her temporarily, but then repeats the behavior(s) that drove her nuts again and again… she tries to talk, give hints, maybe even cries or yells and it never changes…
At the point a woman leaves – she has usually given up…
I am not being mean here. but if you look back, my guess is there were signs you downplyed or did not notice — happily married men long times or lifetime usually tell you – if she aint happy aint no one happy… heed this…
Women are a lot less demanding than men think… it takes a kind word or subtle behavioral shift and we are putty in your hands… but if we leave because you insist on doing what you want when you want (eg no woman is controlling me mentality- so many males have)… then all the begging and pleading will not work.. she tried – and it did not work – now she is done.
Its not win or lose here.. There is no lose.. Its win or you learn… Move on and use redirect that passion inside of you to having an even better relationship with the next girl..