How can i get my Ex-Girlfriend back?
Hi, So we broke up about 3 months ago and completely stopped talking about a month ago. She has recently tried to talk to me a little bit. I would ignore her at first but about a week ago i responded but acted as if i was over her. I said something like "just friends" and she said "so your over me?" so i answered with "isnt that what you wanted: and she said "i guess." A few days went by and i thought i would have heard from her but didnt. She was leaving for Nicaragua with her church to build houses on Saturday so on friday afternoon i just IM’ed her to say have a good trip and we talked a little while then i said i had to go. Later that night she IM’ed me and we talked some more and i told her that we should talk when she gets back because i know things between us havent been exactly comfortable recently and she said "yes, thats fine" She has been gon for just about a week now and comes back on sunday night. I want nothing more then to get back together with this girl. We were together for a year and for the she has recently tried to talk to me numerous times in the last two weeks. I really miss her and love her and want to know if it sounds like were on the road to getting back together and what i can do to get her back in my arms. She was my first love and i really really really want her back. Anything Helps 
Thank you
P.S- i spent a lot of time trying to get her back right after we broke up, so then i just kinda took it easy and stopped talking to her for a while and i guess she go the point. I went back to therapy for this girl and made some serious changes that i needed to make in order to make our relationship work. I just want the shot to show her how much i have improved. How do i get her to agree to giving me that one shot i need? I just dont want to act like im overdooing anything.
P.P.S- She comes home today, what should i do about that, like do i wait till she approaches me (i think i should do that) but are there any other suggestions please 
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hear know way to get her back couse she love some or she dont love you couse one of your friend went on your msn and said they wher you then your girlfriend did not know that you stal love her and she mad and you for nothing
serenade her
You should have bought her a thong for valentines day
Easy. Girls love mushy romantic stuff. Just treat her over-the-top-ly special, and she’ll come back to you. In order to keep her though you might want to keep treating her nice! Good luck.
Take it slow at first. Say hi and IM her and everything and start to talk about why you broke up. then tell her how much you improved and ask if she will give you another shot. It will take guts but if you really love her you will do this. today even.
make her jealous…she will coming running back to you…garenteed
well if yu want to …wait till she approaches yu then tell her all yur guts…no no just like break it to her easy that yu made a big time mistake so noe that yu learned yur lesson that yu dont know watt yu have till its gone…that when she was gone that yu missed her alot and yu really really really want her to give yu a second chance…hope i helped
Not worth the Hurt, let it go
You’ll get attatched and its prolly not ment to be
or
work your ass off and give your self and everything for her
Buying her things won’t accomplish anything but look cheesy and look like you are trying to buy her affections.
You said that you had been with this girl for a year, right? That means that you both know each other and probably pretty well. When she gets back CALL her (not text, not IM) be a man, step up, and SHOW her that you are making an effort. After calling her, tell her you want to see her to talk about things.
Then you can explain how much you miss and care about her, how you want to get back together because you love her and you hate that being apart hurt her all this time. Explain the only reason you acted like you didn’t care is because you were broken up, hurt, and trying to move on but you couldn’t because you think you guys are worth being together.
Be honest.
But make sure getting back together is really something you want to do–the last thing you want to happen is the two of you getting back together, a few weeks pass, and you realize you got back into something you didn’t want.
Best of luck!
okayyy your really lucky!! it seems she still has feelings for you and keeps dropping small hints like in a girls mind "so you over me yet??" means im not over you and just tell her you really wanna see her and you wanna talk then go hang out with her and i promise you will both have old feeling come up and probably get back together!!:) good luck!!
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Ok, one answer to both of your questions:
What should you do? -Tell her you really like her (don’t say "I couldn’t stop thinking about you."
What should you do when she comes home? -Give her a big smile and hug then tell her you really like her. (I would love if a guy I used to like and am friends with welcomed me home with that.)
nut up or shut up…. grab her by the damn hips look her in the eyes and tell her how u feel.
make sure u grab the hips they like that…. and it will work..
Aww well why dont you write her a letter n tell her how you feel!
Or not send her some roses…..
Something simple but meaningful!
N then wen you approach her, make her see ur feelings r truue!
Goood Luck! (: