Do I make my boyfriend want to be back with his ex?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for over 4 months. We have been best friends for almost 5 years. We have decided to get married, but he isn’t gonna propose "officially" until New Year’s Eve. (my fav. holiday) In the past month, he has started talking to two of his exes. He says he is trying to salvage their friendships. I wouldn’t be upset if it were any of his other exes, but these two are the ones he has had sex with. We haven’t had sex yet and I don’t plan on it until we are married. Do you think I make him want to be back with them.
We have talked about it and I have explained to him exactly how I feel. He says he still cares about them, but he loves me more than anything or anyone and would never try to hurt me like that. What he does’t get is he is hurting me by making me feel like I’m not enough.
What do you think?
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I don’t know if he wants to be back with them or not. You have only been dating him for 4 months. Its to soon to think about marriage. It doesn’t sound like either one of you are ready for that. I don’t think he knows for sure what he wants and if you cant trust him 100%, then, you should wait until you can. Sometimes when you get this intuition about things, there is a reason for it. Maybe you already know the answer, but, haven’t accepted it as of yet.Just take it day by day and see what happens.
Even though I’m pretty young, 14, to really know whats going on I would understand why he would maybe talk to exes.
Maybe he used to hate them, and grew up a bit more and is deciding to remember what he liked about them friends ship wise and decided that not liking them was stupid.
Sorry if this confused you, I just thought of my ex writing this.