How do i get a virgo man back?
I am a cancer and i dated a virgo man for a year and a half. He was amazing, he wrote love pomes for me and i loved it. he would do anything in his power the make me happy. yet he broke up with me after a year and a half saying he needed to be single right now. i don’t get it :S how do i get him back or how do i make him jealous?
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Keep it moving trust me if it didnt work the first time it wont work this time. Not tryna be mean bn real
To answer your question, you can try by being sincere and telling him that you do miss him, but…
He told you he wanted to be single. This has nothing to do with you, and in fact is the exact opposite of being with you. He is doing what most guys do: get scared of love and committment.
What I would do if I were you, is just not contact him, and go plan your life and catch up on what you have always wanted to do…In other words, go be single yourself, and have fun. If this means see other guys, then do that. I know it sucks to go out on dates when all you can do is think of HIM. But take it from me: You cannot, will not, and should not convince him of how good you two are for each other. He should have realized that before his quest to be "single". And if he calls you and says "I made a big mistake" etc. Use your best judgment to see if he is being sincere. Otherwise, move on. You will be doing yourself a favor if you do.
Good luck.
DON’T make him jealous I’m a Virgo man and if you made me jealous i would get you back lol (prolly with ur best friend) and us Virgo’s are confusing but it all makes sense in our minds ya know? and even though Virgos are quite boring (says alot of people) we still like people who challenge us and try to make us come out of our shell. I mean he probably thought this is boring (cancer and Virgo sound boring but a good match lol) do something he wont expect but DON’T scare him away.
Don’t try. Virgos don’t like the feeling of being forced into something or having something pushed on them. If that happens, we’ll go in the opposite direction. And don’t try to make him jealous. I don’t know about him but for the most part, all Virgos I know aren’t very jealous – including myself. He’d probably see right through it, think you were being childish, and walk farther from you. My Scorpio ex of two years and one month tried every tactic he could think of to get me back: pleading, crying, threatening, being mean to me, etc. Nothing worked and I just thought he was being stupid and immature, which only confirmed the fact that I made the right decision in breaking up with him.
You did not do anything wrong at all. In fact, I am sort of dating a Virgo now and guess what? Everything went well and all of a sudden he texted me telling me he is not ready for a relationship and that my words sounded like that of a gf!!! My texts made him uncomfortable and that he felt we should stop seeing each other! Of course, I apologised and explained to him I wanna see him again. He replied that he would think over the weekend! Ok, I was worried sick over the weekend and finally Monday came and I wrote him a long handwritten letter! Afternoon I received a text from him that it felt the toy had been broken! And he could not see how this thing would work out! Oh of course I asked him to come up with a win win situation. No reply. I texted, no reply. And guess what! I decided to take back my powers and I told him I do not deserved to be treated in this manner and I told him what I wanted from him! I did not even show any concern about his feelings! This time it was all about ME ME ME!!! And I also told him I respect your feelings, you jolly well do the same too! And guess what, he replied I messaged him tons of sms and that my reaction was full of drama and very pushy and that he did not need all those emotions! Oh I replied that I was sharing with him how I was feeling in a calm manner and that I am NOT sorry at all for the texts I sent him! He wanted to make me feel bad and that I would apologise but no way! Why should I feel bad when in the first place, he started all the drama!!! I was very direct with him. I told him what I want and that I also know the consequences that he would not reply. But hey it’s good to get it off my chest. Yes I do respect his feelings and I was always so afraid to offend him. But now my attitude is sometimes a man be he a Virgo, Leo, Aries, or whatever star sign they are born under, they need to be put into place! I told him firmly the other women he dated allowed him to behave like a jerk but I am not going to take such rubbish from him because he is NOT a jerk at all!!! Frankly since things had come to this stage, I feel that as a woman, I have to stand up for myself. and I told him, he jolly well learnt how to respect a woman! Oh reply came very fast as he criticised me and I told him I would not budge as I am firmly standing my grounds! Virgo men are afraid of dramas! In the first place, he is the MOST dramatic man I ever see!