I am confused! Did she ever love me??
We were together for over a year now. Since the last 3 months she has been coming up with problems everyday. One day she says her family is very rich and things wont work between us, i console her and she is ok. Next day she says her mom and bro are against this relatyionship and dont like me (P.S – they havent even seen and met me although i wanted to meet but she told me not to), then one day she says what if teh society objects to our relationship, i console her again. Next day she says her mom n bro like me but somehow her mom says our marraige wont work in future and again i have to console her. Every morning she breaks up with me and i console her and she comes back to me and within a few hours she breaks up with a new problem . This has been happening for 3 weeks everyday now. She says she loves me, i am the best for her but things wont work out after 2 years…Finally she broke off yesterday saying she will never come back. I am confused guys if she really loved me or what….
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stop consoling her anymore , let her do what she wants although you love her so much and remember if you follow then you may lose completely and there is something what l couldn’t understand .. that is how can she believe for the society or parents about bad marriage in future between you and her .. l mean maybe she tries to find a new problems? listen up brother , lm really so sorry for the things l will say now forgive me but in my opinion she is not right and true girl or love for you … you know why? because she believes other people and thinking pessimistic ways about it and most worst is she breakes up often then it means when you marry her , she may do same things even worst things and can leave you alone .. if she would really loved you, then she would be with you in your good day and bad day no matter what..she is just still complicated and let her time but never try to console her anymore cuz she doesn’t deserve you ..
She’s confused. Maybe you should give her some space and see what happens.
I think that she only loved you for a while, but then when she wana break up with you she felt guilty, so she tried to beak off the relationship smoothly using these problems. I am sure she really did love you but she just do not know how to end a relationship nicely without breaking your heart.
i guess your girlfriend needs some counseling..
by the sounds of it she did love you at one time, but she oviously lost interest somewhere down the line. They say everything happens for a reason maybe this was ment to be by the sounds of it she’s wanted it forawhile.
thats happened to me a few times but not everyday see says she dsoent wanan be with me then she says she dose its like a game now i no she will come back and fuck i dont no ay
It seems like she was on the fence about whether to be with you or not, and used family/society as an excuse to break up.
I think she is pulling your chain. There is plenty of women out there, and you need to be out there asking them for their phone numbers, instead of worrying about this already over relationship.
Good luck!
i dont think she ever loved u….i mean who will cum up everyday wid stupid excuses for making a relationship unsuccessful!!!
i think may be she liked u once…..but then may be she lost interest in u….n then had 2 make all sorts of excuses 2 break up….
u should be happy 2 break up with such a girl for good….
now forget her and move on!!
Maybe somthing is going on in her life…
she mite be hiding a secret that makes her really sad and she cudnt make up her mind wot is rite wot is wrong and it effected her relationship
people who are fairly well off think too highly of themselves and they want their daughters and sons to be with someone of the same status or more. I think she really likes you a lot but it really seems like she values her family’s opinion and approval. I’m a girl and when my mother didnt like my ex bf i ended up breaking up with him. whatever the reason is for them not liking you, her decision to stay with you will change. i know it is hard but if she wants to leave, let her go. if she really loved you…she will come back. until then let her go her way and focus on going your way.
sounds like she doesn’t know what she wants what i would do is let her go if she really loves you she will come back if she doesn’t then you were never to be and wont have to suffer the break ups and excuses every morning
First of all you have feelings too. Ask yourself what it is you want out of any relationship and what you would be gaining and losing from this relationship.
Although you should have given her time to think about what she wanted, that ship have sailed. So now she has taken herself out of the picture in order to see it clearly. You have been together for a while and right now you need time to think about where your relationship is taking you two. Give each other time and don’t pressure her. Time will tell.
If this has been happening for awhile then I dont think she really loves you.She just may be saying that to soften you up.I wouldn’t take her back.I’ve made that mistake.Coming from a girl,girls tend to have"mood swings" if you know what i mean.So I wouldn’t take her back.
Apparently, her family are very important to her, and she leans on them a lot. They’ve been putting a lot of pressure on her, to adhere to their values, which may not necessarily be her own. She doesn’t seem to know her own mind, which is not good, and I’m not so sure that she knows what love is. It seems like she’s trying to figure out who she is, but her family stifles her. She’s not ready to be in a committed relationship, not until she figures out who she is and what she wants. She may have loved you, but it’s a love that can’t deepen, because she’s needy, and also believing she must listen to family, who haven’t got enough common sense to meet you and find out who you are. They all sound pretty shallow.
well dear, its time for you to question the relationship. ist gonna work? you can not be solution for every problem. why dont her self try to solve some of the problems.
its you call…
Nope, Love is not causing issues. Yes problems arise during the course of the relationship. Ultimately Love should shine over all. She was in infatuated or in lust… Either way she needs to evaluate herself spiritually before tossing around the word LOVE so loose. May you find Real Love.
Zi