My ex hasbroken w/ the other woman (she put him out last year, has a new boyfriend- she did the same he did to me) now hes living here there everywhere but has not come back home yet. He comes to see the kids, pays support, looks tired,bad, and now hes saying things like Im working on getting my life together, but i have unfinished business to take care of (when i ask him what it means- he says it dosent involve me and gets testy!) then he says hes sorry for what he did to me, im greAT, a standup women who takes care of the kids and house, ect. ect, but something has changed in me.
what does this mean or is it a line? ESP. WHAT IS UNFINISHED BUSINESS??????

Background:

My husband left me for another older married woman. Im making peace?
with this and have not been ugly, kept him from the kids, ect. If I have to call out there for anything- she wont say anything to me-screens calls or if the phone gets picked up by someone at the house- she will say im in the shower or dodges me. Also now my ex when we talk about the kids hes fine but if he says anything and (like im looking for a new job) and i say you’ll make it or encourage him he gets really anxious or if i give a gift or help his mom he will say thanks and i say your welcome he gets quiet or will say something like you dont have to or he just gets very uncomfortable. like he dosent want me to say anything nice or encourage.
He made his decision- he said he wanted his freedom, to be alone,for e to move on and if i remind him this is what he wanted now he denies it and says i didnt really say that.
I thought he was in love with her , thats why he left me, i was not the one, but i dont harbor hate in my heart. why do they dislike me so i didnt break up our marraig
1 year ago
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1 year ago

im 42,hes 43, she is 53 married, 3 kids (loving and wonderful teens and preteens) they love him very much and i have told them to still love him. he comes to take them out on the wekends but wont come in the house or he will just quickly speak and leave. if im not there he will stay and laugh and joke with the kids, but if im there he will not stay.
He says he dosent love her and that im thinking relationship like we had and its not like that andhhe has told me its friends having fun. I did get her on the phone once and she said she regretted getting involved with him it was a mistake and she didnt realize how much i loved him. That she hates that i was hurt. hmmm? That they are not together like i am thinking and he is free to leave she is not olding him and has told him he needs to go home to his family that loves him and his kids. He says he has hurt me too much and hes not ready to deal with this rigt now. Ive tried to find someone ese but my heart is not in it.


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