My now ex boyfriend wants to get back with me plz help he has put me threw so much?
I was dating this boy for a few of months and he was my first. he has put me threw so much from his ex girl texting my phone telling me their still together or messing around and now he wants to get back with me but i cant trust him but i really love him so plz help me idk what to do because now hes telling me all these things i want to hear telling me that he loves me and i shouldnt believe what other say
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Don’t do it. He did it once he will do it again – as Plus44 puts it "The past is only the future with the lights on". Just because he was your first doesnt mean he loves you, he might just be horny or looking for an accessory. If he is still at you in a few months and sounds sincere maybe you should re-consider then. But do you really want your heart broken by the same guy twice?
Make it clear that you aren’t getting back together with him.
Be precise & to the point – tell him exactly why.
Then DON’T TALK TO HIM.
Ignore his texts, calls, ignore him when you see him, etc.
he cheated on you, just keep on remembering that. if you do get back with him then its possible he might cheat on you again, so don’t put yourself through that again. you can do better, and just tell him to fu(k off.
Just keep in mind the pain he put you through before, and how long it took you to get away from him. He is not worth it. He was probably cheating, and if he really was, he 3ill do it again, because he was not totally happy in the relationship. REMEMBER the BAD times!!! If it was working, you would have still be with him!!! Don’t go backwards. No one changes for anyone else, only for themselves.
I don’t think he can be back with you because he might keep talking with his other ex still. better not talk or answer your phone if he call or text.
DONT BELIVE THE GIRLSZ! LOOL
OMG once this girl rang me telling me tha my boyfriend was in her room right now… i just sed ok cuz he was standing right in front of me so i knew she was lying and this wasn’t the 1st time one of many girls tried to do this to me and 2bh b4 tha happened i always wandered but now i know its just a bunch of lies! if he was really with that girl would she really text you?? think about it if you was with somebody BF would you txt his GF.. all that would happen is they would break up and he would blame you so either way you would lose!
i dnt know your BF but i do know that some girls are just out to break people up jus ignore them and do what u feel in your heart! ‘xo
It’s difficult to say what to do becasue I don’t know the guy, but some people you can trust and others you can’t. Normaly if someone has broken my heart on a number of occasions I know they definetly are not worth it. Others make mistakes and then apologise after which they are faithful while others never learn. If you feel he has messed you around too much then do not take him back, even if you love him, because sometimes as selfish as it sounds you have to think of yourself and the potential hurt he could cause you again. We have to guide our hearts with our heads sometimes in order for love not to make a fool of us.
You need to get away from this guy. You need to remind yourself why he is your ex in the first place. You also need to remind yourself how he has put you through so much. This guy has no respect for the girls that he gets involved with. He was cheating on you with his ex and he will continue to cheat with his ex. Your gut feeling is telling you not to trust this guy. So you should listen to your gut feeling. I understand that you love him but you need someone that is going to love you and respect you in return. I know this is not what you want to hear. If you don’t want to believe me that he’s going to hurt you again then take it back and see for yourself. But I promise you this guy didn’t change and you won’t be able to change him either.