How do I get my ex boyfriend back?
My boyfriend just broke up with me, we were best friends before and really loved each other but he just got so busy with after school activities… and he just stopped loving me… we had like really deep conversations while we were going out too… and i really want him back, he was really sweet… and handsome… and just overall perfect… how do i earn him back? how can i make him want me? answers pleeeaaasseee. and i’m not willing to stoop low as to dating his best friends or anything because his best friends is also my best friend… please help? 
he still wants to be friends… but i don’t know if i can talk to him… and it was really sudden too… and all my friends think i can get him back but i really don’t know, i’ve been so miserable for the past few days that i haven’t even been able to eat anything… and i’ve been close to puking several times… like i’m literally sick to my stomach and the heart ache is unbearable… but he was still really happy after we broke up… like the day after i was holding back tears all day and he was just all happy. but he keeps looking at me… like he did when he was with his old girlfriend… back when he liked me… now he’ll peek over and see what i’m up too and if i look over and catch his glance, he turns his head really quickly and goes back to talking to his ‘other friends’ and i just invited him back into our old group… even though people are mad at him, i felt bad… because his best friend is also there… but idk how to deal or get over him…
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Are you yearning for the good old days and hoping to rekindle a lost romance? Are you interested in giving a tumultuous relationship another chance? Follow these steps detailed below and you can learn how to get him back.
1 – Keep in mind, first and foremost, that patience is a virtue. Do not rush anything, but rather start things off with a simple small whenever you pass your ex, or waving and saying hello every so often. You should maintain eye contact so that he knows you are communicating with him and not with somebody else, but do not let it go much further than this.
2 – Try slowly implementing conversation in again, making an attempt to talk to him when you can. Remember that you should keep your conversation brief, and rather basic in nature. Do not reveal too much, because mystery is actually quite a bit appealing for many men. Also, if you run into him at a party or a social gathering, if your friends come into the room, you may consider stopping the conversation to return to them. This will let him know that while the communication between the two of you is nice, he is not your highest priority right now. Don’t be afraid to flirt a little bit here and there as well.
3 – Keep things fresh. Make sure that you look good, and smell good, and that you keep things changed up on a fairly regular basis in order to keep him interested in you. You should put some thought into your appearance because maintaining your good looks will show confidence and respect for yourself and your body which is something that most men find quite sexy and attractive.
4 – Don’t be afraid to throw a few honest compliments out there every so often. You are going to want to make sure that your ex feels good any time he is around you if you really want to get your ex back. Talk about the good times that you and he spent together, bringing up good memories from the past. Help him remember some of the best highlights from the days of your relationship and enjoy the reminiscing while simultaneously working to get him back.
It is not that he just stopped loving you, you just did not fit in to his life anymore for whatever reason. If he loved you he would have figured out a way for it to work. It sounds like he gave you a lame excuse of being to busy.
Sorry but it sounds like it is time to move on….
there really isnt much you can do
If he stopped loving you then why would you want him back? Maybe he just needs time to think or figure out what he wants. If you do something childish like date his friend, you will never get him back. Just be there as his friend and support him. And if you are supposed to be together, it will happen. Don’t push or you will push him away
for a start if he broke up with you for a reason that is understandable, what makes you think its going to work out again?
go find someone that has the time for you, someone who appreciates you for wanting to be with them, someone who you can be with when you want…
i personally wouldnt bother with this bloke, theres more fish in the sea, you just need to get over him and find someone else! im sure you can
I don’t think he stopped loving you I think he just got caught up with school. You need to just tell him you will always be his friend and support him in his school studies etc. Maybe when school semister is over you two can relax a little. But don’t date his friends I’m sure there are other guys out there that don’t know him because that will really hurt him and you don’t want to do that it will definately close a door that you might want to come back to one day.
Well, first off, you should not hold him so high up. Sure, he’s been great the time you were with him, but when you view someone like that, especially when your not together, it can be detrimental. As for getting him back, all you can do is always be there for him. Talk to him, hang out with him, and be whatever he needs you to be. Hopefully, he’ll realize that he was happier with you. I don’t know if that’s the answer you wanted, but that’s all you can do.
Well, it sounds like you may need some professional advice because one simple mistake and it could destroy your chances for good. I read a great ebook by Tod who gave me the perfect plan and approach to win my ex back mistake free