Comments on: How do I deal with my wife who is cheating on me? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: no1advice http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-40479 no1advice Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:12:24 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/#comment-40479 I don't know what state you live in that doesn't acknowledge adultery as grounds?? I know for a fact if you make copies of these talks, you can submit these copies to the judge through your lawyer and it will hold up in court. If you get the child you can request child support from her. You will need that money to pay for child care center while you work during the day. You can do this. Now if you go the opposite way.....My suggestion is this: You make copies still and get her alone sit her butt down and show her the copies of the talks. Take no crap off her. Tell her you have grounds for divorce and she will not win. Be very firm. But....But you will let this go and you and her will get counseling together and she must not contact this crumb again. She has no future > ne isn't going to leave his wife! Has she ever seen Harry Met Sally?? She must go with you or divorce is eminent > period. No wishy-washy here. You have a child to consider here. Counseling will help you over come. Many couples do overcome but the key here is BOTH of you must be simpatico. I wish you the very best in this. Good luck. I don’t know what state you live in that doesn’t acknowledge adultery as grounds?? I know for a fact if you make copies of these talks, you can submit these copies to the judge through your lawyer and it will hold up in court.

If you get the child you can request child support from her. You will need that money to pay for child care center while you work during the day. You can do this.

Now if you go the opposite way…..My suggestion is this: You make copies still and get her alone sit her butt down and show her the copies of the talks. Take no crap off her. Tell her you have grounds for divorce and she will not win. Be very firm. But….But you will let this go and you and her will get counseling together and she must not contact this crumb again. She has no future > ne isn’t going to leave his wife! Has she ever seen Harry Met Sally??

She must go with you or divorce is eminent > period.

No wishy-washy here. You have a child to consider here. Counseling will help you over come. Many couples do overcome but the key here is BOTH of you must be simpatico.

I wish you the very best in this. Good luck.

]]> By: Jill L http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-40473 Jill L Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:12:24 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/#comment-40473 First of all realize it may just be sex with the 2 of them. Women go through times in their lives where they may need a ego boost and one man may not be able to do the job. Try to spice up your sex life and show you're better and eventually she can understand you are her true love. After all she married you. First of all realize it may just be sex with the 2 of them. Women go through times in their lives where they may need a ego boost and one man may not be able to do the job. Try to spice up your sex life and show you’re better and eventually she can understand you are her true love. After all she married you.

]]> By: Michael http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-40474 Michael Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:12:24 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/#comment-40474 Call the wife of the co worker your wife is doing tell her about it file for divorce on the grounds of infidelity you will prob get custody of your children. Call the wife of the co worker your wife is doing tell her about it file for divorce on the grounds of infidelity you will prob get custody of your children.

]]> By: ta http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-40475 ta Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:12:24 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/#comment-40475 confront her, ask why she is doing it and what has made her chose that path. If she is willing to stop and admit what she is doing is wrong then there is no reason for a divorce. People make mistakes, but you cant be foolish and have your children grow up watching her/his parents in a unloving marriage. When you confront her, ask her how she would feel is the situation was the other way around. I hope it all works out for you. confront her, ask why she is doing it and what has made her chose that path. If she is willing to stop and admit what she is doing is wrong then there is no reason for a divorce. People make mistakes, but you cant be foolish and have your children grow up watching her/his parents in a unloving marriage. When you confront her, ask her how she would feel is the situation was the other way around. I hope it all works out for you.

]]> By: letterstoheather http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-40476 letterstoheather Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:12:24 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/5904/how-do-i-deal-with-my-wife-who-is-cheating-on-me/#comment-40476 Adultery certainly IS grounds for divorce. And most Judges look down upon cheaters. Believe it - i used to work for a law firm. You have hard evidence, as well. Print it out. Acting like you don't know about the affair? What is wrong with you? You aren't a doormat, are you? There is a difference between facing your issues and trying to work things out, and hiding in a corner. If my spouse were cheating on me, i'd ask them what they wanted - the affair or the marriage. I have a good sense of self-esteem and i refuse to be married to someone who sneaks around and who disrespects me and our marriage. Adultery certainly IS grounds for divorce. And most Judges look down upon cheaters. Believe it – i used to work for a law firm. You have hard evidence, as well. Print it out.

Acting like you don’t know about the affair? What is wrong with you? You aren’t a doormat, are you?

There is a difference between facing your issues and trying to work things out, and hiding in a corner.

If my spouse were cheating on me, i’d ask them what they wanted – the affair or the marriage. I have a good sense of self-esteem and i refuse to be married to someone who sneaks around and who disrespects me and our marriage.

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