how to get your man back!?
We had a HUGE FIGHT it ended with me fighting another woman…finding out i was pregnant and being so very depressed! Oh and now i am single. He broke up with me he called me crazy for fighting the girl. She kept pushing herself onto him and i had had enough so i lashed out. But now i am basically in need of getting him back. I allowed him to take my happiness. I need him back in order to get that back. So do you have any positive suggestions. Please do not judge me for you do not know our struggle. Just suggestions on how we could work on getting back together.
this is actually my first fight! i never lose my cool
as i see i am being judged anyway…we were together for 3 1/2 years i never got out of control as i did that day. we barely argued. We were happy and if we were not i would not fight so hard to get him back. it was an act of rage and anger and my self esteem i too thought was higher than what it turned out to be. I will be a good mother regardless of what the father turns out to be. Nevertheless he will be a great father. Husband im not so sure. We were engaged. I do not cause much drama nor do i like to be involved in any. So all of this is out of my element and i am just using this as a tool to express my feelings right now. Again please don’t judge me. I have enough people doing that. Thank you
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Do you do this a lot? And did you say you are pregnant? I am not trying to judge you because I don’t know you but you have to exercise your self esteem. That other girl didn’t matter until you made her matter. Never ever show jealousy (even if you are) It is a HUGE turn off. My best advice to you would be to not call him for a few weeks and work on your self esteem. Make yourself feel good, you’re beautiful and deserve some time alone. Pretty soon he will call. Right now he has an ugly image of you in his head and you don’t want to contact him. He sees you as a wild, out of control woman and needs time to remember who you really are. Good Luck.
Best way to get a face to face with him would be tell him that you left your "pipe" over at his crib and you need to get it back.
I’ll answer only if you can truthfully answer this:
Why do I value myself so little to want to return to a man who treats me this way?
give him head stop talking and clean the fucking house men are easy you bitch are just well………
You don’t need him to be happy. And why did he not push this woman away, leaving you to do it? Be thankful he’s gone.
Alright well, he shouldn’t have broken up with you over that one incident unless you make it a habit to dive onto a woman that looks at him and fight her. You need to talk to him face to face, explain the situation and that you wouldn’t have been in the position if it wasn’t for him anyway, since you were defending your relationship. Besides, he needs to be there, or should be there for your pregnancy. There’s really not a whole lot of advice I can give you since I don’t know the whole story, situation or what you two are like with each other.
First if you rely on someone else for your happiness you will never truly be happy.
I WILL NOT advise you how to get him back because it sounds like a match made in hell. He didnt tell her to get off, you had to hit her. Then he dumped you for it. He isnt exactly your hero, now is he?
Hey, your name isnt Cheryl, is it?
OK so fighting didn’t work. Drama doesn’t work. Try talking.
Call him…ask to meet…keep it calm. …low drama.
Tell him you got carried away…you still love him..you miss him.
Then let him talk. Listen. Just try and hear what he says.
And don’t drop the pregnant bomb on him. You might get him back that way but you won’t keep him. Save that until he is back.
BC
If this is real, and you aren’t a trolllllllll—————
Drama, drama, drama.
And no, he’s not your man, obviously. If you and he had a loving relationship, no one, not anything can split you apart. He’s a baby. You are too.
Result? The mess you are in
And saddest of all is that you are going to bring a child into this… an unstable home.
Oh, God. Thank you for this lady not being MY mother !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
You ARE crazy, hon. Physically attacking someone is…. uh,….. uncivilized….. You are as well, immature, and lack the ability to choose a nice, mature MAN to be the father of a child.
And you likely are the product of a public education. We used to teach girls how to find a great spouse, how to be one, and as well, why it isn’t a good idea to pop out babies when you aren’t in a solid relationship.
I could go on and on and on….. but you are so far down the bottom of the jar, I have no suggestion for you except to go back to school, finish a degree in some field that will earn you a decent living, and get into long term group counseling. You are so far out in left field, you aren’t even in the game.
That was a crazy move you fighting another woman.
You need to work on your self esteem before entering any relationship. If you feel better about you no one can take that away.
If he wanted you back he would be with you.
Maybe he’s tired of drama and struggling, now he wants a confident woman by his side.