Ok, here’s the thing, a few weeks ago, my best.my ex best friend was going of with one of our other friends, he and her were very close and seemed to be great friends, although he wasn’t a best friend to us, he had known us for a very long time.
Anyway, my friend kept going to lunch with him and told me, "you can come if you want!" so i did, because i’d only just finished this major essay and i was finally free, i also have friends that i like to hang around with, and they usually come with me when we get lunch, so we all went to meet her, this boy and this boy’s best friend and we all sat down on the same table. While i got chatting to the boys best friend, (another friend we’d known for a while,) MY best friend suddenly got up and left with the boy, I’d asked her, "oh are you going?" and she’d said, "yeh, we are!" She seemed moody so i decided not to test her temper.
After a while, i found that she’d always sigh if i came near to talk, and she seemed to want to be close to this boy all the time and seemed to forget my existence completely, so i asked one of our friends in a text, "what should i do? Have i made her angry somehow?" and that friend said, "shall i tell her hwo you feel, i mean, i think i should tell her since she’ll probably yell at you," so i agreed and my friend texted her, telling her about our conversation.
Suddenly, my best friend didn’t text me like she usually did, and all my friends were saying she seemed pretty pissed, so i texted her the following day saying, "hey, have we fallen out?" and my best friend replied saying, "Tell me how you feel!" at first i was a bit hesitant because i knew w’ere this would lead. Anyway, in the end i told her all about my feelings and this is what i said :

Hmm, where to start, ok then, firstly, it seems unfair that you cast all my other mates aside when you finally want to talked to me, you blame them for everything when its not at all their fault,
its yours! your the one that goes off with other’s without informing me, and you always judge me.
I mean, you don’t tell me at all about your problems, you tell (and i said the boys name) I mean, aren’t we meant to be best friends? You go freely with everyone yet get in a mood with me, furthermore, you had a massive go at me for saying that "I thought your ex was a nice guy!" I’m a lesbian for gods sake its not like i was saying i fancied him!! You treat all my other friends like trash and im not having it at all. You also put me down endlessy, saying to me, "your ugly, you have no friends and your boring!" Firstly, even if your joking, it is not funny, secondly, i may have not been partying recently because I HAVE WORK to do, which i’m over now and finally, i have heaps of friends! After that, i explained to her how horrible she’d been to me, threatening me with our friendship if i didn’t tell her what this girl thought of her, then when i did, she told the girl about it and i was hated, while she made the girl a great friend!
I ended by saying, "you know what, i think we’ve both given up on our friendship, and i’m sorta glad, i dont want to be best friends with you, because i have friends who are better."

She replied saying

Maybe I go of with the boy because you go of with your other friends, I should be able to talk with my best friend when i want, but your always with them, and i can’t talk to you. There are things i don’t want them to know and even though their your friends, they’re not mine. Yeh, they are in the same class taking the same lessons but you shouldn’t ditch me to go with them, (I actually dont though, she’s lying,) The boy, ( i won’t say his name) has been a better friend than you ever have been and i dont think we like each other anymore, to be honest, i dont even remember calling you that stuff, also, this has happened all my life, i hate it! I clearly don’t need you as a friend!"

Then i said, "good luck with your new best friend and she replied saying, "sams not a new best friend, he’s been it for a while, i just never told you!"

I didn’t yell at her, i never have done and never will, Anyway, all my friends are saying she was in the wrong and that she;s f***** up, but still, i miss her and we’ve been together for ten years so, while i’m happy that im not so close to her, it would be alot easier if we could talk without her walking away, whats worse, is that i’m known as "The mom," of the group, i look after our little group by mothering the boys and making sure they don’t get into fights, and with the girls i help with they’re work, have lunch and help out in they’re relationships, sadly, i’ve been away from them so that i can stay away from my ex best friend and already two boys have been injured and one refuses to come back to the bikesheds, 3 of the girls were bitching about one boy and they hate each other, and lots of freaks have come to hang around the group and its unbearable, but i have to stay away or else the’re will be a massive fight! So :

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