I could not afford psychiatric counselling :) But perhaps I don’t need one. I’m not a masochist, I think I’m just sentimental. I like bringing back old happy memories and it makes me cry. I broke up a few days ago with my fiance, and I could not describe the pain. He has been treating me bad, verbal abuse, sometimes physical, even in public. I always found ways to forgive him since I love him. I did hope that maybe he could change. But I realize that people don’t change. I’m not going to elaborate on how we broke up. The thing is that I finally found the courage to stand up for my dignity and "fight back". He sent me messages on the phone today that he got so used to me and felt good around me, that he misses me. I answered him sarcastically that he could use other girls, but not me. I added that I am no longer his doormat.

My problem is I try to get myself busy, see friends, but everything I do reminds me of him. We lived together and so I think this makes it even more painful since i spent a lot of time with him. I still love him and he knows that.

I noticed that most people get over relationships much faster than I do. My previous relationship it took me 4 years to recover. During that period I refused to see anyone (guys), not even for tea. I don’t want history to repeat. Please help. Any advice or suggestions are welcome. Only serious answers please.
We were supposed to get married next month. The announcement has been made to all friends, invitations sent, etc.


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