I am a singal dad and I wants was a ladies man how do you get your grove back?

I have been a singal dad for 3 years now and I am all about my kids but its time for daddy to get a little and I am on my own no family will help out and I all ready pay way to much for daycare so all the money I get goes to live and I have no money for dates. I cant wait untill they are old enough to watch them selves i will be in my mid thirtys.