Giving back your EX's stuff?
Ok so my girlfriend which is now my EX have dated for 2 years and 5 months. Ive recently started to go back to school because she told me to show her that you can improve with your life. So after signing up for classes, I reminded her that I was going to be busy with work and school. I work 40 hours a week and with school in the way now, im super busy. Anyways, a couple nights ago she broke up with me because we’ve been rocky for about a month and us being too busy with each other. I’ve done so much for her even hop on to her phone plan to help ease stress and pay half the bill for her. She’s been hurt by her EX bf’s and I thought she would understand how it feels and im sure she does because I told her that she must know how Im feeling right now. But anyways, she said it was the last straw and doesnt have the same feelings anymore. I try and try till this day for her to take me back and she still doesnt budge. I’m planning on giving all the stuff she gave me back to her on her birthday. After giving all her stuff back Im going to ignore, not that I want to but Im sure this is what she wants. Me out of her life..Question is, how do you think she would feel?
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If she doesn’t CARE about you any more, she’s not going to CARE if you dramatically give her back all the "stuff" she gave you over the years.
Why give back the "stuff?" Is any of it useful? Surely she gave you a few nice things? All she’ll do is give it to some other friend or a brother or someone–you aren’t hurting her by giving her back "stuff."
Now, if it’s her clothing that was at your house, that’s a different story. Give her back that "stuff." But gifts she gave you? Keep ‘em.
Here’s the bad news: She is NO LONGER INTO YOU. It happens. You need to move on. Throw yourself into your work and classwork. Maybe see if you can’t study with some nice girls at school. Put yourself out there….one chapter of your life just closed. A new chapter is beginning.
Give up on the ex girlfriend. She DUMPED YOU. It’s OVER. Adjust to that reality and move forward.
Good luck.