Why give back the "stuff?" Is any of it useful? Surely she gave you a few nice things? All she’ll do is give it to some other friend or a brother or someone–you aren’t hurting her by giving her back "stuff."

Now, if it’s her clothing that was at your house, that’s a different story. Give her back that "stuff." But gifts she gave you? Keep ‘em.

Here’s the bad news: She is NO LONGER INTO YOU. It happens. You need to move on. Throw yourself into your work and classwork. Maybe see if you can’t study with some nice girls at school. Put yourself out there….one chapter of your life just closed. A new chapter is beginning.

Give up on the ex girlfriend. She DUMPED YOU. It’s OVER. Adjust to that reality and move forward.

Good luck.