How to get my girl back?
I am from India, and around 8 months back I met a girl online. Her parents contaced me through a matrimonial website. They invited me to come over to their place. I just fell in Love at first sight with that girl, and I assumed that she also liked me.
After few days we start talking on phone, maybe 1-2 times in a week, and chatted online, and then she asked me to add her as a friend on Facebook. And there she saw me talking to other girls, and she just quit talking to me. Her mother told me, that she thinks that either I am a flirt or like other girls from whom I am talking to on Facebook.
She never talked to me again, never received any phone call, I tried few times, then I stopped bothering her, becauase I think Love should be mutual.
It has been 6 months now, but I still dream about that girl…I truely want to get her, but I dont know how?
Now, I live in a different city. Can you guys give me an idea, how to make a new start with her…or should I just forget her?
Please give me some clues, I dont want to call her, because it will show I am very desperate for her and she might ignore me, but any other tactic….
Please give me some advice on this….
Thanks in Advance….
Actually she thinks, I like one of the girl on Facebook that was my friend. Because that girl used to send me flirty messages, and I also use to do the same stuff. So, I think she is right in her way, it’s just she never gave me a chance to explain that I just love her..and everyone else on Facebook is just my friend.
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i don’t know but u need to ask her whether she is really willing to be with you or not….if the answere is no then let her go else you can give it a try… don’t be with the one who can’t trust you and if you really love her, then get her by all means and change your life according to wot she needs in you…
the choice is completely yours and you need to be prepared for anything if you want her, else look for an other girl and the one who accepts you the way you are……
Do you really want to spend your whole life with someone who won’t even let you be friends with another woman?
Ok there are other girls in the world
But i would call her leave her a message that says that you cant get her out of your head.
Or message her and just say hey how have you been.
You could always talk to the mother about it and see if she can help.
i’d like to advise you, you should never fully trust anybody online. like i’ve told someone earlier, even the people who live around you in your area change. and you can’t fully trust them. imagine a person whom you’ve never met before. she obviously changed abruptly in just a matter of what..a few weeks or so. so, just simply put, go out and discover the people in your area. it’s always better to meet the person…in person because you can have a closer bond and there can be mutual trust. the next girl you find online, may have that insecurity and may think you are talking to other girls also.
take care
see if you think bout being desperate you cannot start new with her cos there is no other way she would know how you feel for her.
i think you should tell her how you feel for her just a e mail or so. write all your feelings she thought u were flirt just cos you were talking to some friends she needs to grow up cos a nursery kid also talks to many girls does not mean its flirting.. they re just part of your life and she has to understand that and you can tell her if talking to girls upsets her you are ready to leave that but she has to at least give a chance to hear you out. tell how you feel For her…
if she does not reply forget her.
Hi buddy am from india too….and here is an indian rescue….hehehe…..ok now this is something tricky….quiet frank facebook was not the right choice,ther is no privacy….when u were liking that girl,it was a stage where the love was raw…u should hav stopped talking to other girls….after convincing your girl that others are just friends or something, only after that u should hav proceeded….but everything is not over my friend….if she is still on facebook then send something like writting in her wall an apology and that the other girls are just friends dont over do that.just once tell her all the details of all the friends you hav and tell her theres nothing wrong u had done…..talk to her parents and get a breakthrough to her heart……try giving a call but just once and yes the desperate thing exists so carefull…..if nothing works out leave her and go find another love should be through mutual understanding…but the problem happend that understanding didnt even happen try building an understanding…..if need extra help contact me thru dude2anoop@yahoo.co.in….am there in facebook…just type anoopnair