I want to make my ex fall back in love with me…?
I have an ex, we’ve been broken up for over two months now. The first month she changed her number and wouldn’t have any contact with me. The second month we slept together a few times and were pretty clingy again, and then she withdrew and now we are back to "friends" status it seems. I talk to her everyday and see her everytime she has a day off or I do.
She says there’s too much hurt in our relationship and that i’m too good for her and that I dont really want her, i just want the idea of a relationship
Actually, I’m so in love with her in hurts to not be with her and I find myself missing her every second I’m not talking to her.
She’s not the romantic type and she’s fairly anti social as she’s dealing with her own issues at the moment.
I just want suggestions/ideas on how to get her to fall back in love with me…or ideas on how I can at least try…in the past I’ve always given up on my exes but my heart just won’t let me this time.
I’ve worked on all the issues she had with me. I’m now medicated and in therapy for my anxiety, I use to hate her dog and now i bring him treats and he sleeps with me and i walk him, I use to be jealous of her male friends and now even though she intentionally tries to rile me up, i let it slide off my back and tell her to have a good time….everything she had an issue with, I fixed…now I know it takes time to prove it and I’m working on the time issue….I just want other ideas on how to get her to fall back for me again.
Until both of our issues became problems (her self esteem/eating disorder and my anxiety) we were perfect
*sigh*
If it matters I’m m/27 and she’s f/24. She knows I love her..but she doesnt think i really do..she thinks its not her I love but the idea of her and the idea of being in a relationship…..I don’t think her self esteem lets her think that someone could actually want HER and love HER.
I have told her how much I love her…it seems every couple days I post something in my blog (which only she can read) about how much I want to try again and how much I truely love her with all my heart.
she says "why didnt you see this before"
but the old cliche stands true that you dont know what you have until its gone and I thought that working on all my issues and spending hours in therapy and continuing to go every week would help at least some….but when we started sleeping together she was always telling me she missed me then after we hung out more she went back to friend mode.
Needless to say, I’m seriously confused by this girl
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You need to give her some space, and just remain friends for the time being, dont push her, as this could make things worse for you both.You need to get yourself an interest besides thinking about her, maybe go visit friends, and try not to dwell on things, just try and be happy.i ended my relationship 3 months ago now, I was going with someone for over 3 years, yes it hurts, as I love this person, but I have to move on and try to help myself again, I am still friends, but no romance, as I cant handle anything right now.you will be able to move on, but in time.
IF you still love her you should tell her,otherwise you might regret it in the future.
your so right about making her fall back in love with you. Only her heart can do that. You can keep on making things right in your relationship like you have. You know if someone tells you enough that they love you you really start believing them after awhile. Keep on improving yourself and then you need to show her that you have changed for the better. Sounds to me like the first month her actions were just pure anger then she turned it around. Did something happen drastically in the second month? Sounds like she pulled back for a reason. Think through things and keep on trying.
Getting your ex back can be very difficult, considering we often act on pure emotions than on rational thinking.
My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.
I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work – my friend is proof.
Here is the website if you are interested – hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:
http://winbackyourextoday.blogspot.com/