I want my x-husband back what should I do please HELP!?
I want my x-husband back what should can I do?
My x-husband and I have been divorced now for 3years and he is remarried. But I never stop loving him I just hide it as good as I can. He has moved on but over this past weekend I seen him at our kids soc-cor games and he told me he was so unhappy and that he was leaving his wife and that asked me if I want to move away. We have 3 kids together and we were together for 17years. I know he still loves me by his actions and what he was telling me but I had to blow him off and say take care of your issues at hand before we do anything. I haven’t talked to him since saturday and I am going nuts because I so want to know if he is serious. I have been on and off seeing people but no one could ever replace him and I just told a good friend what was said by him and she totally supports me trying it again if he is willing but what can I do? I don’t want to get to excited and hope full if he really wasn’t serious because I sure don’t need to get hurt. But I know deep down and also what others have said and what he said he only married her to have one up on me because at that time I was seeing someone.
I know I would move away so that we can start fresh and be a family me. I want to figure out what I can do because I really do love him and I want him to know how can I or do you think I am wrong for saying anything please help!
17 hours ago – 3 days left to answer.
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Also he had told me this one other time that he was having problems but I thought he was happy now I thought they worked it all out that was about a year ago. I never thought he was so unhappy. Also our kids don’t like his wife by her actions and his family hates her they all tell me he was so stupid to let me go. I seriously need help I am freaking out over it. I can’t call him because she is very jealous of me and I try to not ever cause problems between them.
17 hours ago
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Actions speak louder then words, so if he’s serious then he needs to prove it. All you need to do is let him know that if he were to take care of business and get a divorce, that you would definitely take another chance with him. If he knows that for sure, and he’s really unhappy, then I don’t see why he wouldn’t take the steps to get a divorce. Just make sure that he’s not saying that so he can try to have an affair with you or something, make him do the work and don’t give in until he’s completely divorced.
Don’t do anything with him until he divorces her. When he does start dating him and see where it leads you. Don’t rush into anything, you have kids to think about. Good luck
I think the only thing you can do is tell him how you feel. Invite him for lunch or something casual, tell him that you still love him and want to give your relationship another shot. However, do not have an affair with him, and make it clear that that’s not want you want. See what his response is, if he really is that unhappy then he’ll leave his current wife, and you guys can start working on mending your relationship.
But before you do that, I think you should really sit down and think about the decision. Why did you get divorced in the first place? Have those issues been solved? Really think it over, don’t just think I love him, he’s the love of my life. Why is he the love of your life, did you really have a good marriage? Good luck!
You need to meet with him and have a long talk, and really make sure it’s what you both want. It will only work if your each others best friend, remember that.
The only way you can know if what he say is true is for you to talk to him, which you truly need to do, no matter what other people say at the end it only the 2 of you that matter and of crosse the children
you should remember why you broke up in the first place, and if you choose to get back seek counseling before you do so, because your kids might be over and accept the fact that you guys are divorce but they might not get over a 2nd divoce between the 2 of you
Goodluck & hope you get what your heart desires
Wait until he divorces the other woman before you are taking any action. Then it’ll be much easier. You say he still love you – use it! Attract him and show him you still want him – he’ll come back!