My husband wants to double penetrate me with a dildo. How can I tell him I don't like it without hurting him?
In my last relationship my ex talked me into swinging. When I got pregnant he left me. I was devastated. I found a wonderful man now. We’re married. Our relationship is very loving and we’re monogamous. Lately he wanted to DP me with a toy when we’re having sex. It brought back painful memories of my last relationship. How do it tell him I’m not into it without sounding like a selfish prude wife ?
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Tell him exactly what you said here and say you are reminded of your ex husband when you do this and you want to be thinking only of him, so you won’t be doing this anymore.
suggest something else
suggest using a double ended one. see if he agrees to that!
idk what to tell u except what ur not willing some other woman is…
Just say no. Most guys are happy enough if the wife just considers it and then says no. As long as your sex life is healthy and good, you shouldnt have to worry about it.
You will have to tell him that you don’t want to do the things that he suggests. You don’t have to tell him the reason why. You could let him know that your not comfortable with what he is wanting.
Peach… what does a dildo have to do with your past relationship and getting pregnant from someone you swung with?
If you don’t like the way it feels, tell him you aren’t willing to do it.
If you don’t like being reminded of your sordid sexual past, get some therapy to deal with YOUR PERSONAL issues so you and your new husband can have a happy, healthy sex life.
just tell him what happened and if he really loves you he will understand and not want to subject you to that.
ok so a toy with your man makes you think of your ex making you have sex with another man really get some help your new man loves you and toys are healthy and safe way to explore and experiment
just tell him that you’re not into it that way, but you’re willing to experiment in other ways.
Tell him you’ll let him do it ONLY if you can do it to him first.
He might change his mind
Yeah, whatever Peach. Whatever.
Just explain to him exactly how you have explained it to us. Show him this question. My advice to you though is to try it just once or twice just to please him.
may be to make concessions? toys for sex is the diversity of life
If you’re not into it don’t do it. But don’t use your past experience to stop you having a god sex life. If the idea turns you on, try it.
explain things to him, you shouldnt let past experience cloud your sex life but he should equally understand. go slow.
confess the issues you have with using the dildo and sex toys. but compromise is a must. Suggest something else that doesnt bring back those bad memories…