im so confused, i love my str8 friend and i want him to love me back and when i finally asked him…?
if he even have feelings for me cos we do make out but he’s str8 ..u see im his first and he’d been a playboy all his life and he said he’s sure about his sexuality thts why he’s not afraid to do things.. anyways he always tells me that he loves me as a person, i can tell he likes my personality and me as a person.. anyways so just yesterday when i asked him how he feels honestly h said that he’s afraid to love me like gay people do cos he also believes that anyone can love a gay person- which makes total sense cos str8s usally dont do gay stuff just cos most of th time society dictates thm.. and so.. this is what i told him, i said that i dont want to force him into this cos i know it’s hard to be gay and he’s lucky that he’s straight that everyone sees him as normal and it has benefits.. so what should i do.. should i loose him cos i care about him, or should i wait and wait and give it another shot cos ive been literally waiting for a year already and its kinda tiring..
btw we made this promise that we wont see anyone else.. and we told ourselves that it’d be just the two of us for the longest time..
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This is a tough one. At the very least, it sounds like he’s at least bisexual and is afraid to come out. But the best advice that I can give is to follow your heart and it would probably hurt either way.
But I would say it would be better to keep a friendship than to loose a romance.
If he’s straight, he’s never going to be attracted in that way no matter how much he cares for you. Just like you could care deeply for a female friend and not feel physically attracted. If he tried to be with you in that way, chances are he would feel weird about it afterward and possibly hurt you without meaning to. Find somebody else to love and be his friend.
Hmn this is a tough one.
I think he’s gay if he made that promise to you but he’s just scared to come out.
Give him time and be there for him.
It’ll hurt but in the end it’ll be worth it, i hope.
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Keep the friendship but lose the romance. He’ll just (continue to) break your heart.
I see your Q&A’s a lot. You seem like a very sweet guy. Go find someone that will love you the way you need to be loved.
im sorry but theres no way he’s straight……….he has to be at least bi
I remember you posting a question alot like this months ago…
Hey, we’ve all been in that situation (more often than we want to admit). What you need to do is accept that your friend is straight and that there will never be more than friendship between you.
Just go for it. I know you both have this connection, which is unexplainable, but you love him and don’t lose him because you will regret it.