So I meet this girl at the club a few weeks ago. She invites me out one night with her and her girl. So I go out there and her friend is talking to the bar-back because I guess they are F-Buddies and we all decide to go to another bar. While there I’m talking to her friend at the bar and this dude pulls her aside and starts telling my girl that he made a mistake sleeping with her friend and he wants to be with her and he kisses her (I had no clue this was going on). Then she comes back to me and tells me that he told her he made a mistake with the friend, but fails to mention anything else. Anyway her friend and him slept together that night and the next day he tries to pick up my girl again. So that’s the beginning of the drama with her. This is the first night we have hung out since we met.

Well also during that night she tells me that she answered an ad for a housekeeping job and when she got there the 60 year old man (shes 22) who placed the ad told her he wasn’t looking for a housekeeper but a wife. He is loaded and would give her 0,000, pay for her college, buy her cars, blah blah blah. She asked me if I would still be her boyfriend if she married him. I told her that I didn’t know, maybe if it was strictly a business relationship between the two of them.

Well the next day she fills in the huge details that she left out the night before. She tells me that the dude kissed her and she tells me that not only does the old guy want to get married but he wants her to have his kid too. What the hel?

So now shes pressing me on if I want to stay with her. I really don’t know if I should get involved if shes going to be in another relationship. It may be okay now, but what happens when we start seeing each other and I start to love her? I think I will just be setting myself up to get hurt if I do. I told her I need to even see if we are right for each other first so I would make up my mind after we dated a few weeks.

2 days later: She asks me last minute to go to a Halloween party with her since her friend cant go. I tell her I have plans, but she pleads for me to go. So I give in, I go to her place and shes like "Wheres your costume?" even though she didn’t tell me I needed one. Now its this huge deal that everyone HAS to have a costume. All the stores are closed so I agree to go in drag. So we go driving around to all her friends houses to find me clothes. So then I go and meet all her friends at this party dressed up like a chick. It’s embarrassing as hell but I did it as a favor to her. So during the night it came up that I was getting off probation for something minor shortly. Also she asked me something about sex and my ex’s and I told her that I ususally date girls who have a kinky side to them and she cops this attitude and is distant to me the whole night, then she just gets up and leaves me (even though I asked her at the beginning to do me one favor of not leaving me alone at the party). So we get back to her place and shes all distant to me still and says she doesn’t want to have sex with me because I’m a different person than she thought I was. I asked her how and shes like "You seemed like a nice guy when I met you then I find out you date kinky girls and your on probation, why don’t you just go date Rachel (her friend from the beginning of the story)"

What is up with this girl? Why cant I find a decent girl? Or maybe its just me. Did I do something wrong?

Are there any cute sane women in the Tampa area? If so, hit me up :-)

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