I have an ex fiance that won’t let go. I’ve been looking for spells to help him forget me and move on. Help?
My ex fiance and I ended badly, I fell in love with his best friend and now my ex will not let go. It’s run to the point he’s calling me every few days, watching where I go, stalking me, having people keep an eye on my comings and goings and he’s going to counseling. I wish him the best, I want him to let go and move on with his life but this has consumed him. As a practicing Wiccan, I want to gently offer him a reprieve but not give in to his demands that the only way he’ll heal is if we get back together. I have searched for a good spell for him to forget me and move on but it seems all I can find is healing spells for those that want to forget the ex that dumped them that they are still in love with or those that desperately want thier ex’s back. Does anyone have any spells that might help him forget his pain, forget me and move on to heal. I want that for him, as I do care for him and want him to heal from this. I am better with candle spells than anything, but would appreciate anything anyone has to offer. Thank you and Goddess Bless.
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Here is a spell that will work…
Protection Order – This is a civil order for victims of domestic violence who have been assaulted, threatened, or stalked and are afraid of being hurt again. The court tells the "family or household member" who threatened or assaulted you not to harm you again. This order is requested by the victim at any local court. There is no cost for the Protection Order.
Oh Ok. Next your current bf will fall in love with your best friend and you can stalk him and blah blah . hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
spells????????LOL
sprinkle some chicken blood in his shoes and spin around 3 times with a mouthful of mint leaves
Ahhh!… Fair is foul and foul is fair!… is it not?!
You don’t need any spells. Just tell him he’s no longer the central part of your life and that he needs to move on. If he doesn’t get that, then you need to talk to another person about security.
Find out who his counselor is and tell him or her that they would like it if he would leave you alone. Have the counselor get him out of your life.
The most effective end is not to be found in some dusty tomb. It’s to be found in yourself. Sorry if I come across as a fortune cookie mystic, but you need to stand up to him yourself. Don’t hide behind some spell. Ask him if he’ll meet up with you sometime so you can talk, and make it clear that your relationship is over. I suggest remaining friends, but if that isn’t possible, tell him that if he continues to stalk you, legal actions will be taken.
Yes i have the perfect one! I used it and it worked.
Harry Houdini had a small weeny just like this man. Make him leave as fast as he can!
Sweetheart you answered your own question. Light your candles, call the quarters and express your desire for him to heal and move on. Magic works best when it’s kept simple. Make sure you express the desire that the Mighty ones help him to heal and you leave what he needs in their hands.
Brightest Blessing.
So, you want something that will just make him "piss off" and go away? (not pissed off mind you!)
Obtain a small item belonging to him, whilst visualizing him gone away from you (the piss off part) pee on it. Then put it somewhere it won’t be found.
It sounds awful, but I’ve used this successfully in the past.
If you wish to reverse it, wash the item.
spells are not real and you can not change a persons will by using a spell.
Tell him no be firm. If he does not stop call the police
This is a classic Freudian case.First, when he had you he didn’t show how much you meant to him (he took u for granted) and he didn’t do the things that he should have to really excite you–so you went for his best friend to do two things: 1) make him lose not only you but also his best friend; 2) try that age-old unconscious thing of luring guys to come around your guy to make it look like you are highly desireable, thinking that he is going to go to some new level of the relationship because of the threats of other guys having you; in reality this really pisses guys off, and serves the opposite purpose–it drives them to dislike you.
Now that he doesn’t have you, he wants you–because people always want what they can’t have. It may be childhood transference where he wanted his mother, but his father was too big to take on–thus his best friend is now a much easier target to get than his father; he may be finally winning over his mother if he gets you back. Once he gets you back, he’ll probably find someone else just so that he can say that he dumped you–and not you him–and plus he’ll be venting his anger for you "shacking up" with his friend.
I tell my students this when they look around the classroom and they think that everyone is looking at them or thinking about them: "People really don’t worry or think too much about others, they are worried about what people are thinking about themselves–it’s called egocentricity. People really don’t think much about anyone except for themselves. You probably want to think that he has fallen apart over you to boost your esteem, but he’s probably living it up right now since his best friend took the ball and chain off of his foot.
Also, i learned this in my psychology studies: Luck, superstition, things like witchcraft, etc..are really for people who have no skills; luck is the opposite of skill–you can make your own luck if you are skillfull. Why should you rely on some outside thing such as putting eye of newt, toe of frog, wool of bat, and tongue of dog in a brewing pot and hope that it works, or you can make what happens certain by thinking things through and acting on common sense.
As a practicing Wiccan, you should know that magic worked on another’s behalf without his permission is generally considered rude at best.
If he is seriously stalking you, what you need is a restraining order.
Honestly, part of this is karma. While you may honestly be trying to help him, this also sounds like you might be trying to quelch personal guilt. You hurt him and betrayed him. He is behaving badly now (saying that the only solution is to get back together is absolutely emotional blackmail), but by your description this started with a betrayal. You can’t magic-away guilt and responsibility.
If it is safe to speak with him (meet in a neutral place), you need to explain your feelings in no uncertain terms, and also to apologize for your wrongs. Tell him that you are no longer in love and that his behavior is deeply concerning you. Bring up the possibility of a restraining order.
If it isn’t safe to speak with him, just get the restraining order.
I cast a spell before, but he cheated on me and I he still wanted to hurt me. So I…
Found a clean empty glass jar. Wrote his name on a piece of paper in marker so it would wash off.
I wrote his full name on it and picked 13 rosemary leaves. (Rosemary I find to work well, it heals and helps them move on) For each leaf, I said a reason that he should move on and find someone new. (for me it was someone to play with their heartstrings, but it can be changed to help your case) I gradually dropped the rosemary leaves in the water with 3 pinches sea salt while saying the reasons he should move on. I put the name paper in the water and let it sit overnight. The next morning an hour before unrise, I dumped the water in a toilet (closest thing I have to flowing water, a river would be better) and you could say "You, who loves me and covets me, I do not wish to be yours. I wish that you find someone who loves you as well as you love. So mote it be"
I am in the same boat i just broke up with my boyfriend and he has just gone off the handle. he just cant let it go and deal with the fact that i dont love him and i dont want to be with him. Im trying to find a spell to help him move on in his life and do good in it or do something at all in it. Something to heal the pain that he is so afraid of.