I Want To Get My Ex-Boyfriend Back Before Valentines Day!
I want to get my ex-boyfriend back!
My boyfriend of a yr & a half broke up with me this past week & the week before. the week before he decided he wanted to work on things.
I’ve been trying to not contact him but i failed & called him the other day & he asked how have you been doing babe & talking to me. I went to see him at his work yesterday & asked if he would get back together w/ me & we could do things slowly.
He still loves me but we were fighting alot. I am likely to see him at a mutual friends birthday tonight. I wrote him a letter but don’t know if i should give it to him, since I cried my eyes out in front of him at his work.
He said hes just been focusing on himself for now…hes not interested in being with anyone else & hopes I don’t do the same. I told him i can’t wait forever & put my life on hold. Our relationship was good when we didn’t fight.
I love him so much still.
I want us to get back together before Valentines day. I want this badly because last year this time, we weren’t together. He had broken up w/ me after 2 months, but since then we’ve been back together since last march 08.
What should I do to make this happen? I’m just so heartbroken.
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8 ways to get him to beg you to take him back
1.NEVER EVER cry to your ex and tell him that you want him back. it will only make you look pathetic. you should not beg..make HIM beg!
2. guys always want what they can’t have! don’t be too available,be mysterious and provocative.
3. when you do see him,LOOK YOUR BEST..always always look your best!make him realize what he had lost.
4. be sweet and friendly,but not just to him..but to everyone else too (friendly,NOT flirty!).but don’t blab too much.
5. smile a lot,but don’t be too cheesy. show him (or just pretend) how "content" your life is with or without him.
6. don’t act stupid.be smart,be polite and don’t overreact. treat him like he’s any of your guy friend.
7. now that you’re single..enjoy being one!go out with your friends!get a new hobby!be daring!talk to other guys (who knows..)!have fun!your ex will realize that you’re really having fun only if you’re not faking it.
8. once again..always look your best,be respectful and love yourself. people would only respect you and want to be a part of your life only if you took good care of yourself.
Rastalove,
Right now your ex boyfriend knows he can have you whenever he wants. There is a natural human tendency to take people for granted when you know they are totally available…. and your boyfriend is no different. It’s not that he is being cold or uncaring, it’s just human nature to react this way.
It sounds like you’re the one that is really pushing to get back together. Back of and take a break for a bit. I know this is hard because you’re really anxious to get him back, but it’s exactly these anxious feelings that may cause you to do things that are out of character for you.
if you come across as too needy, desperate of pushy, it will kill your chances of getting back together.
Let him know you care and are open to getting back together, but don’t throw yourself at him or chase after him. Take a break and allow him some time to miss you. By backing off and making yourself somewhat unavailable, you make he worry that he may lose you forever… and this can work in your favor for sure.
There is definitely a right way and a very wrong way to go about this. I posted a link to an excellent blog that goes into this in more detail.
I hope this helps. Stay strong and I wish you the best!
Matt