RELATIONSHP EXPERTS…I need your help ….How should I act around my ex-girlfriend?
So my ex and i broke up a few months ago. We did the off and on thing for a while, but we hadnt talked for a while until a yesterday. She called me to invite me to her b-day, and i politely accepted her invitation. But i am reluctant to even show up, because i am not sure how i should act. I guess i still have feelings for her and i wouldnt mind having her back in my life. But i am not sure how i would even go about doing this.
GIRLS: if it were your ex you had called to invite to your b-day party, how would you invision him acting to sweep you off your feet? What would you suggest i do? What has worked in the past? What hasnt? What drives you crazy?
GUYS: What have you done in the past, or how have you acted to get an ex girlfriend back? what worked? what didnt?
I need ALL the help i can get, so all of you relationship experts PLEASE give me as MUCH advice as possible. I need major details. I am not trying to come up with some elaborate plan, i just need suggestions. THANKS!
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Bro Capone:
Dude! Sorry! I do NOT suggest you try
& "get-her-back"! (There is a REASON
you & I are NOT "back" with all of our X’s!)
You MUST Move On~ bro!
How to behave at the party?
Be your Kewl Self! Be Sophisticated!
And~ Be LOW Key, Strong, Positive ~
yet kinda Casual & Un-Interested!
Be a MAN~
with his Ballz Firmly ATTACHED!
Be CONFIDENT! Forget the X!
If you appear "NEEDY"~ YOU LOOZE!
(Don’t even ATTEND!)
If you do go? Dress SHARP~ Clean!
Hit on the many Hotties that will be there!
Forget your F’in X! She is AN X!
Be courteous~ but keep your distance!
Just don’t act like a Moron~
or an Immature Idiot! Show her
how Cool you are~ without her!
NO DRAMA!
Look dude! I still have "feelings"~
to this day, for all the Hot Chicks
I’ve dated! But I have NO Desire~
to have them BACK! There is far
too much "Fresh Hot Meat"
to Savor 2day!
Ok?
Does this assist you?
Now go get that Hot Chick
you have had your eye on!
Go Get Um~ TIGER!
Act normal, like you don’t care that you guys broke up. Don’t be an as*hole cuz she wins that way, knowing you are probably pissed off. Just be natural like ask her whats up and not be awkward
First of all, be very happy that she invited you to her party. That’s a sign that she wants to remain friends and keep you in her life. But you should go to that party not having big expectations. Keep it casual and not talk to her about relationship stuff since it’s her birthday. You’re there to hang out with her as a guest nothing more.
well, look at this way. you guys are broken up so, i would say just dont try anything to get her back unless she says something. she just invited you to her party. so go. talk to her alittle bit. dont be on to her too much though. let her have her space at the same time. just talk to her like a friend. dont worry about it too much. i dont think shes expecting you to do anything but just being yourself and have a good time. just dont be all over her and do all that. let her just have fun and you have fun too. i dont think you should try to pursue her or imply that you want her back at the party. do that another time and place. at the party, just have a good time.
First create a taxidermy squirrel. Then give it to her as a gift. If she likes it, give her a whole army. If she doesn’t like it, suggest counseling for her. I mean come on, who doesn’t like taxidermy squirrels???
I was in the EXACT same situation 2 months ago. Me and my ex-boyfriend (who dated for 15 months and were serious) broke up a few months ago, and I invited him to my birthday party. He showed up and for the first few minutes it was awkward, but we got over it because we were so close for so long. He got me some nice perfume (because he said it smelt like one that I use to have that I loved) and gave me a card with a very sweet & LONG message inside. Afterwards, we talked a lot during the party & he was cool with my friends.
My advise is to give her a conciderate, personable gift (put a lot of thought into it like my ex did), and give her a sweet card. Dont be afraid to write a lot in it, with all of your feelings. She will keep it for forever, regardless of if you get back together or not. Try your hardest to act the way that you always did around her. Hug her when you arrive, and give her a long hug when you leave. Look her in the eyes for awhile right before you leave. It will really make her think about you for a long time after you leave!
Treat her the same way you do to your other friends.
DO NOT try to avoid her or annoy her
Also, if she invited you, her ex bf, she is basically saying that she would like to be good friends with you.
In other words…Be yourself and be happy! =]
It’s all you can do in this situation…And if you think I’m wrong then what else could you possibly do?
Hope everything works out ^^)
Gosh….
I wish I knew how old she was…It helps to know the age of the woman….
I’m 31 so I’ve had my few of relationships.
Well you have to go there looking really….papi chulo….you know…lol. Wear your best pants, your best shirt, put on a nice cologne.
1). Look your best.
Whatever it is that your thinking of getting her, include her favorite flower attacked to the gift. Or take it to her personally and include a very intense look, and a warm kiss to the cheek….. a……You look Beautiful Tonight……added….should work just fine as well.
2). Compliment Her.
You’ll know if she’s playing hard to get or if she’s just not interested or into you anymore.
If you notice that she’s giving you signals like she’s had before. Because if you’ve been with her, on again and off again…then you know when she want’s you and when she doesn’t.
Try flirting around as well….with other girls in the party. Don’t over do it. You can be charming with other girls, and still be respectful, and just let her see…lighty…what she’s missing. Like offer a girl a chair, or another drink. The key is to be serious, but respectful…at the same time. You can smile at them, just don’t touch their shoulders or anything like that. Just offer things to other girls, without being so ovious.
3). Be Charming…and show her what she’s missing.
Try looking at her across the room, in a very sexy way. Eat her with your eyes, until she feels those stares and she lookes back. When she looks you can blow her a kiss with your hand, very mute, don’t make noise or anything, like MUAH!….just trow her a kiss very lightly, and you can be manly and serious about it at the same time.
4). Stare at her, like you want her.
Then you can get her a drink and ask her if she’d liek to step outside for a few minutes. There you can talk to her…tell her again…remind her again…..Did I tell you how beautiful you looked tonight? You can even take her hand slowly and kiss it while your still looking at her, very warmly, and just make her blush.
You should know by now what makes her blush.
Ask her point blank if she’s taken. Maybe something like…"Please tell me your not taken" When you ask…you have the control…not her.
4). Be dirrect
Take Control!
Good Lucy