GIRLS: Will she and I ever be in love?
I was in love with my best friend for almost a year, the only reason i got over her was because she has a boyfriend of 3 years. And i didn’t want to ruin our amazing friendship. We went through alot this past year with me being in love but it worked out for good. I still cant help but realize how PERFECT we are, we are so similar in so many ways and are perfect together. I am so much more compatible with her than her boyfriend which is kinda weird. I am over her but could easily fall in love with her again i just dont let myself… Deep in my mind i think somehow someday we will end up together. Will we ever end up together?
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Definitely sounds like you still ARE in love with her! Love is not something you can simply choose to turn on and off as you please.
Sounds like a tough situation, and it’s so common. I’ve known of a few of my girl friends who’ve had their guy best friend fall in love with them.
You have to question so many things here..
You may think you’re compatible, but compatible friendship is very different to being romantically compatible.
Has she ever given you any reason for thinking she may like you back? If not, you have to be so careful because it could scare her and potentially ruin your friendship.
How is her relationship with her boyfriend? 3 years is quite a while to be with someone.. there must be something holding it together..
What would you actually do if you did fall in love and were together? it could well end happily ever after, yet it could change everything forever and you really do run a high risk of losing your friendship if things don’t work out..
Be careful, don’t hang on forever waiting for her to turn around and be with you.. you may get hurt. I’ve been in a similar situation and the person I loved for 3 years never returned those feelings and I’ve moved on and am now in a happy long term relationship with someone else =)
I hope you do, but don’t count on it.
It really depends on how she feels about u.
dude im in the same boat and i hope we both do. good luck man. u know why cant woman see what best for them when they are right in front of them.
awww hopefully
best of luck.
try not to be on the
friend zone
if you want things to
move on ?
i hope you do. that sounds like my sister and her now boyfriend relationship. they always liked each other but it took my sister 4 years to dump her ex and starting dating the other guy. but i hope things work out with you and that girl
best of luck
anything could happen. possibly, but maybe not.
couples who are complete opposites are more likely to stay together so if u do date her it might not last long
Face it ur screwed. But thats OK. You can find a new best friend and fall in love with them. If it’s a guy……….. well maybe you should talk to your parents first.
Do she know how you feel?
If not then maybe.
But you seem like a realllly good friend.
But i hope things go good for you!
=]
Good Luck!
I understand completely man, i had the same experience. What you women want first and foremost are friends, a boyfriend is just an extension of that relationship. Continue to be her friend and dont push anything, make her happy and fulfill all the responsibilities you have to her as a friend. Soon enough she will realize that you and her have been around the block together more than she had noticed. You will get her, and trust me, the wait is worth the reward…
If yall are ment to be then yes
but you have to wait cuz if you dont youll ruin your friendship
I would rather much have a best friend relationship with this girl you speak of because if you were ever to break up, that would ruin this great friendship you two have created.
U both will if u both want go ahead
Best of Luck
Tell her how you feel !!
I think that someday, somehow, you will.
If its meant to be it will happen
These sort of things almost always never go well. It’s better to just be friends at this point–though you could very well be in love if everything goes well.
well maybe one day she will realize that you would be a much better boyfriend then her current boyfriend is and she will realize that she likes you. and when you go out with your a best friend…..it can go one of two ways usaully…..
1) Since you know so much about eachother, it works out perfeclty and everything goes good
2) you will brake up and hate eachother ( sory that’s the truth)
but i really hope she comes to her sences and goes out with you
dude shes been with the guy for three years, how much longer are you planning to wait for?
Move on, there is plenty of fish in the sea!
how should we knoww?
i donno!
it all depends on fate!
butt just for kicks
wut do ya look like mate?
If she has been with this guy for 3 years, she must really care about him. Unfortunately it doesn’t look like shes going to drop him and be all about you anytime soon. The best thing you can do is keep your friendship strong and always be there for her. Be careful you don’t waste your time waiting for this girl and let Miss Perfect4You slip on by though…
Listen, if you are meant to be together, you two will find your way to each other in time =] don’t rush things, it will happen naturally if it’s supposed to. but this doesn’t mean that in the future sometime you shouldn’t tell her how you feel, you definetly should when you feel the time is right, but until then, just keep being her great friend & let nature take its course ! good luck*
I was in the same boat! If you really truly want to be with her let her know. Just show her how much better you are for her then her current boyfriend. She just needs a little push in the right direction. But if you know she is truly happy with her boyfriend just leave it be even though its extremly (and i know how hard it can be).
For me I hung out with him alone and finally i just told him exactly how i felt and it turns out he felt the same way he was just to shy to say something about it because he didn’t know how i felt. But so far we have been dating 3 months!
Best of luck to you!
I know what its like to love someone when they love someone else. To be there everyday and pretend that you don’t care when you wish they were with you instead. I know what its like to be friends with someone you love and not pursue your true feelings because you wouldn’t risk ruining you’re friendship for anything in the world, so you do you’re best not to love them. I’ve been there before…when my ex and i became friends again by chance…"perfect" people thought that we were going out because we click really well together and we have a lot in common. People kept asking us if we were going out or insisting that we should. But I figured if he liked me I would know and that we’re just friends, so i never did anything. I was to afraid of getting my heart broken again…
I sometimes wonder what would have happened with slightly different timing, and things worked out what it would have been like. But I don’t see a future with him, I just don’t think it would happen and I can’t see it…
Its always possible. I don’t think you should live your life based around it though. I think that you need to be happy with yourself. And don’t close your mind to thought of being with someone else. Who knows you may find someone that you will end up loving more, but you have to be open to the idea. I wish for you a story tale ending.