Question for Guys who have cheated & got back with their ex-gf: How do I know he truly regrets cheating on me?
We dated for almost 6 years. he started seeing someone 2 weeks before we actually broke up and got into a relationship with the other woman soon after. They dated for about 5 months until he decided that she is such a negative person and almost suicidal. He kept in contact with me halfway through their relationship then we finally hung out and he started to feel regret and slowly let her go but she would take drugs and threaten to kill herself if he left her. He had to stick around a bit longer and pretend to be her boyfriend until he could get past her negativity and leave her alone.
It has been almost 7 months since he ended his relationship with the negative girl & we’ve also been talking. We just recently discussed why he cheated and went through that phase. However, I still feel angry and disgusted that he had sex with her even though we weren’t together. I guess it’s because we were each other’s firsts and there was no one else. I don’t know how i’m going to get past this & trust him again.
I want to know why guys cheat after being in a long relationship then all of a sudden go back to us. How do I know he really regrets his mistake? I want to take him back, but not too easily… I just don’t know if what he’s showing me now is worthy of taking him back. How did you get your ex-girlfriend back after you cheated on her?
He gave me 4 promise rings that I wore almost everyday & I gave them back to him when we broke up. He wears one with my name on it everyday on his pinky. It even left a tan line on his finger. I told him that I couldn’t hold on to them for as long as we don’t have a relationship.
He’s taking me out on an official date this thursday to watch Goapele. She sang our song: Closer. I have a feeling that he’s going to ask me to be his girlfriend w/ the rings I gave back to him. As sweet as the setting may be almost perfect, I’m not sure if I am ready…
Is this a hint that he’s actually trying?
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Maybe he has just wanted to be with another person and try to give a comparison between you and her.Good you have him back.It means you are better than the other.
I used to forget what has passed and won’t cling to what is giving me pain.Give him another chance.Maybe he’ll never do it again and you will live harmoniously together.
he doesn’t regret it… probably thinks you are just too easy that you’ll forgive and forget and he can get back with the sex!!!
if he did it once he will do it again babe Think about it. His last girl HE THOUGHT he liked more then u turned out not so well. Where’s he go? Obviously back to the girl he knows he can have RIGHT now. No one likes being alone. Not even a dirty ass cheater. So guess what he is going to do if he runs into another pretty girl that he thinks he likes more then you? Your on the sidelines again. Dont waste your time. 6 years or not.
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This coming from a guy who has cheated on my ex girlfriend while we were together, then broke up and got back together for a little while: Odds are he does not regret it. I didn’t, because as soon as you cheat, you made your choice, and you are cheating because something is wrong with what you currently have. When he was going through all that with her, he knew that he could just walk away, but he didn’t, so I really doubt he regrets his decision now. The question now is odds are he doesn’t regret it, but are you willing to forgive him?
I’m a girl and I’ve never been cheated on, but I have friends that have, so I think I can help you.
Cheating is the worst thing someone can do in a relationship, second only to actually killing the person. It erases trust, and the plain truth is: you will never know what is going on in his head. If you love him and believe your relationship is worth a second chance, go for it. But be prepared to live with the fact that you will not trust him as much, and it will take much longer for that trust to be reinstated, if it ever is. There will always be a nagging feeling in the back of your mind.
seriously eff him. The fact that this guy hung out with a crazy girl makes me think he is really unstable inside. If he was strong he wouldn’t put up with that crap. He isn’t strong enough to be in a relationship.
You’re way better than that, anyway. Theres a hot guy who is sweet and caring and wants you and you don’t even know it. (maybe =P) Think about your dream guy…. taking you out on a date, being really sweet to you, looking at you and saying "you’re beautiful" hugging you and never letting go. Yeah now think about this bf you are with. If you’d rather pick your dream guy than it’s time to move on.