I broke up with her but now she wants back in!!?
I broke up with my girlfriend last week because she lied and broke a promise. I told her that I don’t want her talking to ex boyfriend. We have been together for four months until one day he tried to get back in her life. She promise me that she will never talk to him, until I found out in she drove to another sate to see him when she told me that she was going to church. I even caught her in a few other lies. Now, since I left her she has been calling and emailing me trying to get me back. She said that she drove to see him to tell him that we were together and that she loves me. This guy even sent me an email saying that he was sorry and wants us to be together. (Couldn’t that be done over the phone?) I just don’t trust him or her. I don’t know if I should take her back, how can I forgive her or trust her again. I love this girl but worry that she is trying to multiply her way back into my life. So I think its best that I leave her.
My problem is that I now feel like taking her back, but my consciences is saying no. How can I separate myself from her without going back to her?
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"She said that she drove to see him to tell him that we were together and that she loves me."
Not only does her ex not know how to use a phone to call you, but she doesn’t seem to know how to use a phone to call HIM and tell him she’s not interested in a relationship because she is/was with you.
I realize there is a lot I don’t know, or can’t know, but that lie in and of itself is more than enough to give most reasonable people cause for alarm. It sounds to me like you’re thinking with your head, but your heart and your feelings for this girl want to believe her version of events and work it out.
Even though it isn’t easy, I advise you follow your gut. Your instincts seem to be telling you this isn’t going to work out, and from what you’ve said, I agree. Let the phone-challenged lovebirds work out their problems with lots and lots of emails and drives over state lines.
Good luck!
If you take her back you will be a sucker. She is playing you like an accordion.
don’t get back with her. trust me. about a year and a half ago, i dated this girl who after one month she broke up with me. with a text! my friends thought it was funny. two weeks later she said she was sorry and wanted to get back with me. she said she feels bad and i was the only guy she dated who wasn’t a jerk. i text-ed her back, "hey Guess what has two thumbs and doesn’t give a crap, me." my friends respected me. so don’t get back with her, trust me
WELL IF SHE REALLY DIDNT GIVE A SHIT SHE
WOULDNT CARE IF YOU BROKE UP
WITH HER SHE WOULDNT BE TRYNA TALK TO YOU
AND ALL THIS BULLSHIT YOU KNOW
SO WHAT PEOPLE LIE RELATION SHIPS
ARENT PEFECT
I have a similar problem, my ex and I had been dating for the past 7 months, and for the last 3 we had a serious problem, for some reason she treated me as if a was always going to be there, as if she couldnt lose me, we spoke about it and discussed it many times, but she always acted like she didnt give a shit and bout 2 hours later shed come around saying she was sorry and that she was going to change, that obviously didnt happen.
This time when it happened i just couldnt take it and broke it off, when it happened, once again, she acted as if it didnt even bother her. four days passed and i get a text and a phone call, saying shes sorry asking me for a second chance, promising me that she will change and that a wont regret the decision of giving her a second chance if i do. I really dont know what to do now, my instincts tell me to protect myself from feeling shitty again but i still love here. What should I do?