How Do I Get My Ex-Boyfriend Back?
How Do I Get My Ex-Boyfriend Back?
My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a little over 7 months ago, and now were just friends with benefits. I still love him and want to be with him again.
We live 2 hours apart so it’s kinda hard to get together much.
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Honestly, ur not giving him a reason to come back permanently, if he can get sex from you with no strings attached, why on earth would he want to change that? Just tell him that this situation isn’t working for you anymore and that you want him back, be honest. I don’t know about the 2 hour difference though, that makes it a little tougher, but if he loves you and respects you, he should want to take you back and not just have casual sex with you. It’s as though you mean nothing to him if he can just hit it and quit it like that.
Move .
Just talk to him regularly. Give it some time, and see if he feels the same way. If he doesn’t suggest a get-together anytime soon, it’s probably time to move on. There’s plenty of other fish in the sea, though. Good luck! =)
make the "benefits" conditional. you will see what his true desires are…
well wat was the problem for the breack up,
and blam it on ur self,
it was all my fault,i miss u and wanna be with u, the works
c if u can work things out
dude halt the fringe benefits as soon as possible. make him work for it again. Men are like animals they need the pursuit. your worth more to him if you’re more work.so press reset on this relationship and start from scratch and if he doesn’t go for it , you have your answer, don’t you?
unrequited love sucks so i hope for you , hes down to start over hours is not far if your in love, dang.
Cancel your benefits, which are more likely to be his benefits anyway. Do nothing to get him back. Lose him. Ask yourself why you broke up in the first place. Then ask, what’s changed? If nothing has really changed, then move on. If he was interested in getting back together, he would have said something by now. Even then, you need to ask, "What’s changed?" You’ve got to believe that you deserve better, and you are probably better off being just friends with no "benefits" other than good conversation. Move on.
I really think you CAN get your ex back but you have to have a plan or else your going to make things worse. Know what I mean?
I’d suggest signing up at…
http://waysto.getbacktogetherwithyourex….
It’s free(though they do recommend some ebook which I HIGHLY recommend giving a try but you don’t have to)
You’ll get all kinds of awesome free advice and stuff like that…
hope it helps and good luck getting your ex back!!!
-Katie : )
Hey, lilwolfy!
I suggest you cut off any contact with your ex for about a week or two.
Give him time to wonder, what’s going on. He’ll start realizing how much he misses you, when he doesn’t see you or hear from you.
Make some plan, and make him wanting you back as his girlfriend.