i really want to ask him out. is this a good way?
we have been getting really close since last summer. were co workers. in august he asked me to be his GF i was shocked i was also still getting to know him, i told him i’d have to think about it. I thought he would come back to me on it… But he never did.
i wish i could just go back in time to him just asking me so i can just say yes without all this stress right now…
since then, we have been texting, flirting, making out. i just want us to be official. i feel i am in love with him.
i dont know what to say to him… i REALLY like him. and he likes me too. i just want us to be official! im really shy to bring it up, so i thought about saying something like this (tell me what you think/give advice!! please!) "Where do we stand? We have been making out for MONTHS. with no commitment so far". .. im not saying i want to be his GF like to his face, but if he brings it up, i WILL say yes.
i really need help. i have been thinking about this so much i have no one really to talk to.. finally i came to the conclusion i can push my shyness aside by saying something like that…. do you think that could work??
i appreciate your help! 
thank u
BTW the other day we were in my car, i totally thought about saying something… But i was so exausted i just got out of working a long shift and i didnt know if he wanted to sit there and talk to me, but we ended up talking for about 10 mins before he went in his house… i drove him home and i coulda totally brought something up. I wanted to, but i couldn’t find the courage! =/ I didnt know what he was going to say… when or how i was gonna bring it up. I NEED HELLPP!! becausse it has been SO LONG. we havent went out together in months, and honestly, i love him BUT i feel like he is slowly moving on from me.. because he doesnt talk to me as much like on our days off when he used to text me almost daily. now i am always the one that has to text him first. and he talks and flirts with me at work a lot, but less than say.. a couple months ago. =/
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personally i think you should just tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way. i hate it when girls play games and don’t say what they mean. if he is talking to you less, then it is likely that he is thinking about moving on. speak now or forever hold your peace.
you never know till you try , dont let it get to what ifs.. just ask her and go from there good luck!