help getting over my ex-girlfriend or getting back with her?
im 17 and my ex is also 17 we just broke up after a year and six months one day we was just chilling at my house watching a movie notebook by the way…lol and after the movie she said we need to talk but in the past we have never spoke of breaking up so i was like ok and she told me she didn’t want to be in a relationship just 4 days before our school dance the next day she asked some guy to the dance and gave him my ticket i talked to her and asked her if she even cares about me she told me "kevin i do care about you but just as a person not in a relationship with you" and im so confused how she can just tell me these things so quickly i am so hurt and need some advise or support i love her but i know its time to move on for some of you that has been in a long relationship how long did it take you to get this deep pain out of your system or anything will help
-thank you for your time and reading this please help
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Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. You can find many other tips and advice on how to get your ex girlfriend back in this great blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com
Hope it helps.
You never get over past relationships. But you try to learn from them and move on. It is best that you find the person that really loves you for who you are. Other people may care for you in a loving way. But the person that really loves you will be there for you and never back away. They will be there for you in the good times and the bad times. Just as you would be there for them good or bad.
Try to learn from the relationship that you had with her. It sounds like she was just wonting to date someone else. If she tries to get back with you don’t. She is only going to be using you.
Kevo! You’re 17 bro! The best way to get over a girl is to get on top of another one!
All jokes aside…I lived with a woman for 4 years, then we split. I now live with a girl and love her to the fullest. Some days i still regret some things that happened with my ex. And that was years ago.
You will have many relationships with women in your life. Some of those women you will carry in your heart forever. The reason being is we learn from them, from the times shared.
In time your heart will mend. You will meet a new girl, you’ll love again. Whatever you do don’t go start drinking and calling her!
The way it seems is like she brokeup with you juss to go to the dance with the other guy…my best advice to you is go to your dance and invite a nice girl to be your date…and as of getting over her try not to think about her 2much or don’t talk to her to me the fastest way to get over someone is if you cut them off so that u can give urself some time to heal and if you think she shud be ur friend den u do that but for now juss leave it be cause it doesn’t seem like she cares very much.