I'm sooo pissed at my husband I don't feel like coming home tonight?
My husband takes Ambient (sleeping pill) when he has trouble sleeping. So, last night he falls asleep around 8. I didn’t get to bed in till about 1130 around 2am my husband wants to have sex. The one thing about Ambient the people taking it, do not remember what they say or do. We start having sex and he FALLS asleep. WTF. I wake him up and he tells me be quite im trying to enjoy this. Enjoy What you just fell asleep his reaction is no i didn’t. He starts up again and Falls asleep again.. Finally Im just like get off of me Im going to bed. He then gets into this rant about how I disrespectful towards him. I was like YOU FELL ASLEEP ITS 2AM. I need to go to work in the morning. …Mind you HE IS NOT WORKING THIS WEEK. So, I go to the other bedroom to get some sleep he wakes me up at 530 to tell me that he is pissed at me. I explained to him that it was not fair to me that he woke me up and fell asleep during sex and he tells me he didn’t fall asleep.. I have been sleeping with this man for about 3 years I know when my husband is asleep. Plus this happen the night before we had sex and he didn’t even remember having sex because of this damm Ambient.
So, by the time i get to work I have an email in my email box and a nasty voice mail telling me read the email and how dare i leave the house with out telling him I love him.. WTF.. I haven’t open up the email, because im afraid I’m going to blow up…. What an ass. I have never never denied him sex at 12am-6am in the morning. Im sooooo pisst I cant even type this rant right!
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Make him come after you, tell him your not going to come home to an asshole.
it sounds hard for you but just remember he is your husband and you love him really, is these pills are causeing arguments maybe he should try to get off of them and see how it goes?
That Ambien is awful stuff Tell him to try something else & talk to his doctor. My bf got it when he couldn’t sleep while getting chemo. He was up hallucinating all night, and drove me crazy. He thought it wasn’t working & took a second one. I took the box and forbid him to ever take it again. That Ambien is bad news. Get him off it!
Alright, there are some serious issues beyond Ambien right now. How long has he had these anger problems? Especially when he’s lashing out because you refuse him sex. That’s an extremely dangerous sign. I’d like to help you. Contact me. My information is on my profile in my ‘about me’.
That medication is BAD, man. I had a roommate that took it, and I can vouch for the side-effects being out of this world crazy.
Just go to a local bar after work and have a couple until he calls you on your cell and apologizes. If he hasn’t called within a couple of hours of when you leave work…there’s your answer…he’s sleeping HIS fun off while you had a fun day at work trying to stay awake. OR he can stew a long time.
I would sleep in the spare bedroom with the door locked for awhile.
Well, No need to be so upset things happen and sometimes they don’t. When you know that he has taken a sleep aid, tell yourself that he won’t be able to perform and decide whether or not you want to engage with him or not. you still have a right to say no and remind him of the last time.
call your husband and have him go buy milk , eggs , something small ,go to a lingerie store buy something sweet and sexy, go home take a bathe and get dressed up ( if u have kids get a baby sitter) when he gets home be ready and waiting and talk to him when your all dressed up about how you were not trying to be rude last night and he was sleeping but you wanted to have fun right now when your both awake
tell me how it goes
Cut him some slack. The drug is clearly the cause of this and i bet he too is frustrated by this. Props to u for having sex with him at that hour knowing u have to work though. But from my view you have some anger issues u may need to work on.
give the guy a break wtf men are men and have needs at weird times, i dont see us say no to u , ur his wife do ur job and respect ur man go home and give him anal sex and enjoy it as hes the giver ur the taker and do ur job as a wife,,,,,,, and stop moaning as if he has a problem i the brain ie a tumor making him forgrt ul feel like shit when u dont have him and ur begging for it at 2an
Not enough sex…too much sex…sex in the morning…only lasts 5 minutes…yadda, yadda, yadda…
What is it, EXACTLY you women want?
Next time just sit on his face, so if he falls asleep and starts snoring you will still enjoy it.
Hope it helps. Good luck…
I have taken Ambien before and I would not recommend it. It does causes your mind to play tricks on you. It causes forgetfulness, amnesia, sleep disorder, nightmares, and it caused me to sleep walk. I would recommend Lunesta instead. Good Luck!