Getting girlfriend back..Playing too hard to get?
Okay, so me and my girlfriend are split up. she wants us to get our friendship back before we get back together because thats what brought us together in the first place, but the thing is she still loves me and i still love her. I been reading all this stuff online and it says that i need to play a little hard and live life to get her curious about me to the point of coming back. So i did it and it does work, she started asking who I am chilling with, did I meet anyone new, and where I am going. But now I feel as if I am playing a little TOO hard to get. I listen to everything she says but I keep the time short and I would say something polite like..How about you call me later because I’m kind of busy right now, cool? But now it seems like she is getting a little upset at the fact that I am busy all the time. When is playing too hard to get? And my ex is the nervous type so she will probably wait for me to ask her back out. We have been apart for about 2 weeks now. So what should I do???? When is the perfect time to ask her out again??
And please no negative answers like "just forget it" and stuff ..we still want to be together so I am looking for advice on how to make my next move..Thanks in advance!!
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Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
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I hope that you will get your ex girlfriend back soon!
Yeah, you’ve stretched it too far. You play hard to get until she attempts to get you… as in, being busy with stuff all the time until she actually starts asking you to do stuff… or calls you a lot.
Playing too hard to get is not always good, the person will get upset then completely pissed off but still will have those feeling for you. Then she is going to do the same to you and start hanging out with a guy to make you jealous on purpose. She is then going to want you to win her back.
What I think you should do is call her and say "Sorry for having enough time…how about we hang out you and me at (her favorite place) and talk" You could ask her innocent questions like how’s school while you make intimate approaches like putting your arm around her…holding her hand but still pay attention to what she has to say.
At the end just kiss her on the cheek and ask to spend some more time with her don’t say "How about a date tomorrow" you don’t want to go in to quickly.
In time you will know when she’s ready.
Man I should be a dating counselor..lol