Even if you don't want your ex back?
whats the best way.. to make him want you back .. for example i recently had sex with my ex then told him i have a boyfriend and i am in love with him and for my ex to never get at me again.because i saw he didn’t change but i still want him to miss me and want me back after all he did cheat on me! so i want him too get hurt alittle and realize its not that easy this time.. any suggestions or ideas? help (= and if u still don’t get it I SAID I DON’T WANT HIM BACK BUT I WANNA HURT HIM THIS TIME THATS WHY I AM ASKING THIS SOO DON’T ANSWERE IF YOU CAN’T HELP THANK YOU.
and i don’t have a boyfriend i said that to make him feel how he made me feel.
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dudeee just move on. stop wasting your time even trying. clearly you want him back. stop lying to your self.
if you really wanted to get at him you should have smashed his car with a baseball bat.
Over is Over. Value yourself. Act accordingly.
Here’s a suggestion; stop acting like a 12 year old sociopath. You screwed the guy when you didn’t love him or want him, and then lied about some other guy for the sole purpose of hurting him? You need to be exiled.
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playing hard to get is always a classic… sounds like you kno what ur doing thouh lol
I feel that you still do like him and maybe you do want him back.. I mean why would you want someone to be hurt if you didn’t care for them, you know? Maybe [if you want him back) you should try talking into him about how you really want it to work out [if you do) and how if he changed a bit, then you would be glad to stay with him.
But back to your question, if you want to hurt him, then I guess it really depends on how much he is attached to you. Like why don’t you just makeout with some guy in front of him or something, if he cared for you, he would probably be furiously jealous. But you know, guys will be guys, they don’t really show emotions.
He’s not hurt by your actions. He thinks you are cheap.
WTF???
Uh, sorry, but you can’t make life work the way you want it to by being a spoiled little bitch…
And if he hurt you significantly, that means you had strong feelings for him, in other words… APOLOGIZE AND GET HIM BACK, and make it a little teary.
You’re just saying that you don’t want want him back but the truth is you still love him.Why continue hurting yourself if you deserve someone better than him.
He cheated on you and you don’t want him back, yet you had sex with him?
1. You’re easy and
2. He knows this, therefore
3. He doesn’t want you back, either, so
4. "Hurting" him would be a waste of time.
5. Walk away and regain your self-respect.
Hope that clears things up.
P.S. Yes, I am trying to help you, even if it’s not the answer you wanted.
The answer is long but worth reading:
If you are playing hard to get and no one is chasing you, that is not playing hard to get, that is lying to yourself. Before you start playing hard to get you must first make the sure the other person wants to play, and is interested in the chase. You must first give him or her reason to want to chase you.
In the culture I was raised in, this is called: "the delicate art of arranging to be caught". It is a courtship ritual that our ancestors discovered watching the courtship behaviour of other wild animals and fine tuned it for their own use. This ritual is still part of selfishly guarded rituals and esoteric arts.
The whole strategy is to give the other person the thrill of a chase when in actual fact you are the one who arranged to be caught. I’ll just reveal one secret of the delicate art of arranging to be caught.
You’ve probably heard that it’s always best to “leave something to the imagination.” There is some sense in this in as far titillating and perhaps some extra provocation is concerned, but this is not the best way of arranging to be caught especially when the little that is revealed, shown or exposed does nothing to the imagination except to ask “why?” or “what for?” Even beautiful eyes, a sweet voice or interesting story have away of putting one off (and in some cases even distinctly revolting) if what is presented to the eyes has no apparent or sincere hint of fun and enjoyment, excitement and adventure or attraction and arousal.
The other person should not have to guess about anything. Most people are unable to accurately read other peoples’ body language let alone their minds. Take nothing for granted. Leave nothing to guesswork. I am not suggesting that we all wear revealing clothing, eyeball or ogle at every hot man or woman, flash breasts or grab crotches à la Michael Jackson; this is not “leaving nothing to the imagination”, it’s bad taste and a sign of under developed sexual and social skills.
Leaving nothing to the imagination basically means that you build up enough intrigue and mystery (with every lingering look, every expression, every body move you make etc) to make the person wonder what makes you tick and what’s going on in your "sexy" head. The person is excited, stimulated and aroused by their own imagination. Their own imagination feeds the thrill for the chase.
You do not really have to do much but relax and wait to be caught. There is no need for any “seduction techniques”, no need to act like you’re not as excited, no need to wait as long as you can before you call after a first date and no need to pretend to be busy etc. In fact you can call him/her everyday or go out every evening just to feed more into his/her imagination. Nothing is more powerfully seductive than a person’s own imagination.
So – the obvious question must be: How the heck do you work with something as high speed and fickle as the imagination? This is a whole other secret. As I discuss a little bit more on my blog.