Comments on: My friend says he is in love with me and I don't love him back but don't want to lose our friendship! Help!

By: Victoria F

Victoria F — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:51:21 +0000

That’s not a fun situation to be stuck in. I usually joke with my guy friend who is that way and I say I’m going to become a nun….but, one thing that does stop the flood of emotions that he lets out is…when I have boyfriend. So…find yourself a man that you DO feel that way about (easier said than done, I know)…..and maybe it will hush your friend-boy up for a while.

By: Skittles!

Skittles! — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:51:21 +0000

Tell him that you don’t feel the same way for him and that your more like a friend instead of a boyfriend.

By: naya w

naya w — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:51:21 +0000

Tell him again if he doesn’t understand then end your friendship because if he truly love u than he would respect your wishes.

By: PikC

PikC — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:51:21 +0000

You need to tell him and make sure he understands your feelings are entirely different from his. But at the same time, tell him you don’t want to lose his friendship. Be sure not to give him mixed signals.

By: luckystar

luckystar — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:51:21 +0000

YOU JUST NEED TO TELL HIM THAT YOU DONT FEEL AS
HE DOES AND THAT YOU DONT WANT TO BE WITH HIM
THAT WAY. HE WILL BE HURT REGARDLESS OF WHAT
YOU SAY. BUT YOU NEED TO SAY IT, THE LONGER YOU
ALLOW THIS TO GO THE HARDER IT WILL GET, AND HE
WILL BE HURT SO MUCH MORE. IF HE WAS REALLY A
\FRIEND HE WILL UNDERSTAND IN THE LONG RUN.
BUT IF HE NOT THEN YOU KNOW.BUT TIME WILL TELL.