almost 6 yrs. 2gether. i broke up w/ him (5mths) want him back, he is slowly moving on. how do i win him back?
High School Sweethearts- First Kiss, First everything I lost interest our their relationship because nothing was changing (I was still living in sin) for almost 6 years! He goes off to College in a different state. I break up with him because I was interested in someone else, and did not want to cheat. and also felt like I would never be good enough to be his wife. I did sleep w/ 2 people in those 5 months. A guy who I have known for almost 2 years, and this other guy who took advantage of me. I told my ex all of this, and all of the details. Maybe I was being too honest, but I love him and I know that he is the one for me but it seems like nothing I do is working. People cheat all of the time, and keep it secret, or their spouse forgives them. He has become quite religious, and I told him that god says forgive people of their sins as he did for us. So, do I deserve a second chance? Or is there no hope in winning him back?
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Guys can be simple…
Try sending him a nice card with a simple message somethin like ..
"Hey x,
So miuch has changed in my life this past year or so. If you ever think about giving things another chance I might be interested."
That says it all – but no apology. If you feel an apology really iss needed then say it but don’t grovel.
The main hurdle may be that he feels you do not share his understanding of God. Unless you do share that understanding it will almost certainly become a very big problem. So… get him talking about his relationship with God and see if you agree.
almost 6 years dating?
might be a chance or no
the only way is to keep in touch with him
if u stop talking to him completely, then chances might be
that he is seeing other people
hopp yu guys get together
I did the same thing… almost exactly except i was the one who moved to college only an hour away from home… met a guy who sweet talked me into thinking he was God. Once i broke it off with my guy of almost six years i realized that i loved him more than ever.. i thought i was getting bored with him but in reality i was comfortable, i could trust him in every way! and i knew that there was no one else out there like him… I am now with the guy of almost six years. we are stronger than ever… all i can say is tell him how you feel, if its meant to be…then it will happen!!!
If you love him then obviously try to get him back. You should listen to nobody except your heart. There is no point in lying to yourself. You will only regret not trying it later.
There is a very right and a very wrong way to do it though, get some more advice, preferably some that works. Get some guide or something, those tend to help. Check my resource below if you are interested about how to get him back.
Maybe try winning him back with friendship. Be his best friend and act like you moved on. Then in the mean time date other men. He will realize he made a mistake for leaving you… this is what you want right? He might just come right to you and tell you this. I guess you know what to do after that.
Good luck!