Are you willing to give love a second chance?
Would you give love a second chance?
Once bitten twice shy they say. With the supposed demise of romance, more people are shying away from love.
When someone dumps you for someone else – especially after having gone extra miles for them – it wont be easy to gamble with your heart and feelings again. Some people go into depression that makes them lose their friends or their jobs. Some end up loathing members of the opposite sex and taking their anger and frustrations out on them. Some take a break from love and focus on other things.
The fear of having to go through the same heartache, the fear of having your now-delicate heart broken again makes people build those emotional walls. However, not all people who suffer from heartbreak react this way. Some bounce back like nothing happened.
What makes people be afraid to love again? When someone you thought cared about you rejects you, most people go into self pity. They start doubting whether they are even good enough to be loved. But is this even healthy?
People break up for various reasons and I don’t think there is a reason like not good enough for love. Cry if you have to. Get a hobby to take your mind off things. Socialize but not specialize; you need that break to figure things out. Accept that change is inevitable. But NEVER EVER give up on love.
“You just have to gamble if you ever hope to hit the jackpot! There are no two ways about it,” says one chick, Peninah. Her story is; her boyfriend hurt her so much it took her 4 years to heal. And she decided to live by the motto: one man’s meat is another man’s poison. She found love and is now happily married to a man who adores her and their daughter.
When you decide to give love a second chance, it may not be easy coz most people usually have issues of trust. But when you realize that the person you want to be with now isn’t the person who broke your heart, and stop lumping people together, you will be off to a good start.
No matter how devastating a break up was, don’t let a great chance pass you by, by refusing to open yourself to love. Don’t settle for too little when you deserve too much. Get out there…love again! But remember, you must heal first in order to love again.
Are you willing to find love the second time, like it’s spoken about in the Second Chance Romance System?
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well after a breakup obviously it wud take time to recover……………….but i sure wud give a second chance…………………
I would.
heck…I’ll give it ..a 6th, 7th, 8th…etc…chance..lol…call me easy ..is ok…lol
yea its allwayzzz beautiful to be in love….but a lil hard to trust again….
Once bitten twice shy they say:)
Why not?
Here…
I have some forwarded SMS quotes from my phone.
Hope you’ll find sense in it.
*****
Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone they love so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again.
But sometimes, a LOVE LOST is a LOVE GONE forever.
No AMOUNT of hope can bring to life a relationship that just died a natural death.
REMEMBER:
It may rain 40 days and 40 nights but still it wont RAIN FOREVER
1 day, the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches
Where you can find REST
It’s never too late.
You may find love and lose it
But when love dies- You never have to DIE with it.
i would love is the greatest feeling out there you have to lose and hurt alittle bit till youtruely know what love is and if its real.
Absolutely! After a breakup I suffer for a short time, but life goes on and life is good! If you have a special someone who loves you and you love, life is GREAT! Always give love a second, third, fourth, nth chance. I have never given the same man a second chance though, just not in me. If we broke up before, there was a good reason for it.
For some reason I am at that stage where, I put myself into my new grandbaby, and Love isn’t in the cards right now..know too many losers..need to someday find another love…Thanks for writing this..Eye opener…
OK you hit the head on the nail right here …
"But remember, you must heal first in order to love again"
That’s enough said right there.
To answer your question by me, Yes …
I would have to say yes. Even though I’ve been through a lot at this point in my life, maybe not as much as some people, its been one hell of a roller-coaster ride, rode it twice. lol I’d still be willing to try again, there’s a possibility that it may end the same way as my last relationship did, hopefully not. But hopefully, should it turn out the same way as my last relationship did, hopefully, just hopefully a majority of however long this relationship last was spent being happy together. I’d rather go through it again, knowing what it feels like to be loved once again, rather than never feeling that emotion (physically & emotionally) again.
Yep, I’m doing it now.