I broke up w/ the love of my life and I can't and won't get over him.. what do I do?
ok.. so I broke up with the love of my life last week.. bc he wanted to date his ex but he didn’t want to brake up with me bc I made him happy and didn’t do anything wrong! So I broke up with him and made him promise that this would be her last chance.. and he understands that if it doesn’t work now.. it’s just not going to work! And he said if and when they brake up he will come right back to me! I love him.. and I don’t want to use munipulative tactics to get him back.. she did and she got him back.. but I’ve always been honest w/ him and I would like to keep it that way.. I just want him back faster.. I have no doubt that they will end but I miss him.. he is the only guy I have ever found that I like everything about.. and he likes everything about me.. I never fought with him and he loved me for me.. and I don’t know whether to show my feelings or pretend I’m over him? can I have some addvise from people who have been through this and guy.. what you would go for? I know I can not explain this guy online but trust me.. he is absolutly perfect and I will figure out how to get him back.. but I would like to get him back sooner rather than later.
And everytime he sees me he tells me he loves me.. cuddles and kisses me and we would be having sex but I would just feel to bad.. and he feels bad bc he knows he’s cheating on his gf but he loves me and her and he is really confused. And I feel bad bc I love him and I’m not the normal chick someone would cheat on his gf with.. but I just want to make it clear.. I am getting him back.. I just want some advise on what is the best way to do it? Please..
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this is so sad and sounds so pathetic. He doesn’t love you completely or he wouldn’t want to hurt you at all, he’s playing you. You allow him to treat you this way, stand up for yourself by making him pick a side and if strays to her again you should write him off as a waste of time forever. He’s not "THE ONE" for you. There are others out there, you’ve just gotta give up on this guy to find them.
If he loved you for you he would not be with another girl open your eyes, honey.
And he’s the ‘love of your life’ because…? A good long-term relationship is based on trust, character and commitment. There seems to be little of that here!
Sit back and be prepared for more of the same. If it’s not his ex then next time it’ll be his co-worker or his new girlfriend or that "other woman" that he just can’t resist.
Heck, if you’re willing to put up with this ish then I’ve no doubt that you will get to. Just know that it’ll keep happening. What do you think he’s telling his "ex" about you? He thinks it’s okay to treat you, and other women, this way. That’s how he is.
Wow thats fucked up. srry to say but this guy is an ass to do that…
if he cheats on that girl with you how do you know he wont do the same when he gets back together with you.
ill tell you this that he probly will get back together with you after he brakes up with his gf. but if he thinks about dumping you for his ex then he rly doesnt love you. bc if he did then why would he hav feelings for his ex. you want to get him back faster, tell him you if he wants to kiss and cuddle then he needs to date you not that other girl. its unfair how he can get both of you and you are ending up more hurt cuz he goes back to that girl
I also left my wife of just 3 years, and I wish I wouldn’t have. I have never loved anyone as much, and I’ll never find a woman as perfect as she is. Her father had his knee replaced, her brother had a heart attack, and her son got suspend from school for fighting, all in one week. I came home from work one day and she said she didn’t want me there any more….So I packed a bag and left for Motel 6..months have passed and she won’t return any of my calls or e-mails..I did this too myself, and I regret it every dam day. I miss Us………. Do whatever you have too in order to keep your relationship alive..
Well, first of all, if he LOVES you he wouldn’t want to hurt you. Second, you are letting him have his cake and eat it to. I’m sorry and I don’t want to be harsh but I have been there and it is a hurtful feeling. Do yourself a favor and find someone who you can TRUST and appreciate you for who you are and not what you can do for them. Good luck, it might be hard the first few months but be strong and hang in there.
This sounds really bad.
If he says he would come right back to you if the ex thing doesn’t work, he is putting you in the place of his cushion, in case he "falls back" (like a second banana, or a back-up).
If he says that he "loves" you, he is purposely confusing you to keep the door open (since he wants to date his ex), and it should be a red flag. If you think he will make you happy and apologize for the stupid thing he is doing and not repeat it***, only then coax him by saying "if you want to be with me, be with me only and do not see your ex."
Have him come clean and REALLY discuss the situation to clarify things. Get the truth out of him so you can hear it and either find closure or take the proper course of action.
* Had this man really really cared, he would have NEVER even brought up the idiotic idea of dating his ex while being with you.
You are a sweet girl and deserve a man’s undying honor for you and his full heart, not a percentage of his heart.
If he loved yu then he would be wit yu .
no matter wat his ex did to get him back he would just ignore it and stay wit yu !
Im not sayin he doesnt love yu, but maybe he loves her a little more .
A cheater always a cheater, and you want him back? Love is based on trust, Sometimes when you are in love with someone and that someone loves someone else that’s what hurts the most and has you as his dog whenever he calls on you. you will come running back to him. you need to get over him and forget him. You need to go out,and just talk and met other men. and enjoy yourself. Slowly but surely you will find the right guy, that will truly love you, that no other woman not even his ex can replace his love for you. My advice for you is just forget him and move on with your life!