how do you recover from betraying you girlfriend?
i was in a happy relationship for about a month when my hormones took over and i made the worst mistake of my life – sleeping with my girlfriend’s best friend.
we obviously broke up, but i want to know if there is a way to recover from this. all her friends basically tell me to lay down and die, and most of my friends hate my guts too. sometimes she talks like there is nothing wrong, other times, she really concerns me.
i know what i did is almost unforgivable, and she has every reason to never want to see me again, but i realize the mistake i made and want to try to heal our friendship.
serious answers please
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give her some time, like a month, or three weeks, because she will have that time to recover.
then when you try to talk to her, talk to her slowly, but try to keep all your forcus on her when you talk, it shows us that you care what she has to say, even if it’s a stupid comment from her.
it’s called respect.
then the second day of so, ask her for a hug. it makes you too touch, in a nice way, it shows how a man you are and that you care.
okay,……… after you try talking to her, try texting her late at night.
then *ask* to call her, ‘say may i call you?’
may i is better because if you say can i, she can say , yes you can buti don’t want you to.
when you talk to her on the phone late at night, like 10:00 or 11:00, tell her you are sorry.
tell her how much you mean to her ,
tell her how much of a bitch you are to do that to you, let her tell you how much of a backstabber you are, even if it makes you mad, let her get it out.
but don’t call her when you first start talking to her, in like 5 of 4 days,
but you need to spill your heart out to her,
let her tell you how she feels,.
when you two are done……….idk…but just take it slow……
show you care, be mature
need help i guess you can email me
just do evrything she sais, give her choclates, give flowers, and dont sleep with another women