Shall I give this girl a third chance?
So here is my story. I had known this girl for past one year "intermittently" 
. She is Korean. First time we broke up with no reason. She just stopped calling! 3 months later she calls me and says that she was going through some bad time as she had to take care of her studies and other personal things. I gave her a second chance. We went out for nearly two months. And during that time we "did it" only twice – Now that was not the issue mmm.. perhaps it was to an extent but not entirely. I did tell her that I like her and she knew that but never expressed her feelings towards me or avoided the topic. I really did romance her a lot but I always felt she was not giving in as much to the relationship as I was. Well a point comes when you feel that you have tried enough..and so I stopped calling her. She did try once to reach me but I did not return the call. We did not connect for two months. She calls me last week again. Shall I give her a third chance?
Some one asked what is the point of me saying "she is korean". I am not sure. I always felt that she has some sort of weird fascination towards "white guys". Btw I am not white. I got from her comments that they dig white guys back in Korea or atleast all girls want to date one. But she never expressed this openly. But one could tell..
One more thing – I must confess I was attracted to her and still am. Although I do not have burning "feelings" for her or anything. Someone said – that I should give her a third chance if I like her. But I do not want to give her another chance because "only" I like her. I want to make sure she carries the same interest.
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i dont think you should give her a 3rd chance. There are plenty of fish in the sea. If you’re not happy with this one, why force yourself to give in to her. This girl sounds emotionless and not as passionate about the relationship. She comes to you when she wants to, so basically she’s using you. You did the right thing by not picking up her calls, so just keep up what you’re doing.
Why waste more of your time. You are not a Yo Yo. You have stated that she was not as giving in the relationship as you. To me that means she is a taker of your valuable time and whatever else, because you did romance her alot. Find someone else that is more worhty of your time and giving nature.
Well…I’m thinkin you should pass.. but… only you will know… when you have had enough…
was that even a relationship to begin with? you guys "just stop" calling each other just like that? hmmm….. just let it go. if it was an actual relationship things would be talked out and not just ignored and left in the dark. there’s obviously NO communication whatsoever so just dont try it again because it will be the same thing alllll over again!
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what was the point saying she is korean???? does it have to do with anything???
yes, ofcource, but you have not faith in her love.hamaare yaha kisi kaa dil nahee toda jaata.
Sure,give the girl another chance,she must be shy or confused,give her some space,if you really like her dont let her go.
of course man
give her achance.
love is achance
具体问题具体分析。
人的一生中，刻苦铭心的爱情只有那么几次，过了这个村就没这个店。If you want something,work for it!
（Do you know Chinese? If you don’t,sent a e-mail to me .I will tell you what the meaning is. ）