whats the best way to get an ex back if she dumped u?
We are both 25. Dated 2 years. She broke up with me saying we are to different and i don’t show enough emotion on how i feel towards her. We talked of marriage etc. the whole thing. She texted me for a week after till i said it hurts stop. then 6 days later "hey you how was your weekend?" Then i wrote her a long letter telling her how i felt, showing the emotion she wanted. She rebuffed saying she cant right now. i asked her to talk face to face but she said she thought something might happen if we did. Now no contact for a week and i need to switch strategies, obviously. Her friends say there is no other guy and i see no signs of that. I know i need to do no contact for awhile to let the emotional dust settle. Should i just ignore her if she texts and try to make her want me? or keep in touch? how can i show her i have changed? i truly have. ladies help me out here how did your guy get u back? please no just move on answers…. whats my best strategy…. how can i show her if i cant see her?
i want to know the best strategy to get her back i want her back badly
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Hi buddy
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
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I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
Good luck!
The best revenge is to act happy without her. Even if you don’t feel that way, you should still tell/show her that you’re doing just fine and that things are looking up for you. If the texts bother you, take your time to reply. If you are slow to respond, you can show your "lack of interest" in her. Living a good life is the best revenge.
there is a great guide for just this situation – get it here:
http://how-get-ex-back.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-get-ex-back-winning-strategies.html
it worked for me on my ex bf – taught me how to attract him again. if it doesn’t work you can just return it and get your money back. i think it’s worth a shot.