Is it acceptable for my girlfriend to accept a belated B-day gift from her High School Ex-Boyfriend?
Just a few months ago it came to my attention that my girlfriend got back in contact with an ex boyfriend of hers that lives out of state, when confronted she claims that he found her on social networking (i.e. Facebook, and/or Myspace, and that there is noting funny going on.Aparently they are back to being friends automatically after we got into an arguement one weekend a few months ago, My girlfriends b-day passed in June, Her Ex has been staying in touch once every so often they would text and talk, One time according to my girlfriend they were on the phone for 3 hours.. They went a while without talking, but its funny whenever my girlfriend gets mad at me he comes back into the talk and texting picture with her.. She had asked me yesterday if we received a package at our PO box that we share, I said I have not seen anything.. She quickly advised me that he ex had sent over a belated b-day gift and it was returned to him RTS (Return to Sender) She asked me if I had rejected delivery.. I DID NOT!!! Now the gift is on the way and I dont quite know how to handle the situation, I did not reject delivery or even see a package come to us, nor will i reject it. She claims she loves me.. and we have and are still having our share of typical relationship issues. I also love her and dont want to lose her. But i feel that this is the top to the lid, As well one week ago he wired 80.00 into her bank account to help her buy college books, I did not have the money to give her so she called him for it. and this really bothered me.. She was able to find some money using another means and I advised her to return it, She supposely did!! She told me last night when I asked her ( why are you still talking to your ex and wanting to accept money and gifts from him) she simply answers" (Its none of your concern what I do or who I am talking to, I can talk to anybody and do whatever I want and you cannot control that.. )
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oh no she’s crazy and your crazy for letting her do that to you. get out while you still can shes playing you!
answer to question, not whole story since it’s long.
that’s just a little strange unless you guys are still friends
No.
No, it’s not. Tell her that it really bothers you && that you wouldn’t want the behavior she has with her ex to affect your relationship.
pffft
you would think that this is unacceptable…but some people seem to think that its completely normal. i personally find it annoying & really strange but thats just me.
when you asked her why she still talks to him & that was her answer…that raises major red flags. you should reevaluate your relationship with her. or say something to the guy haha good luck!
it’s question not story time but um sort of i guess
well i gots to say that it all seems like she is not giving you your place and that it is wrong especially she is doing things behind your back like that … i would say that she is starting to get confused and doesnt know where she stands right now so tell her who is more important her relationship or the other guy??? well also i suggest that you talk to her about how you feel and and let her know that of COURSE your not trying to control her you just feel like she is not giving you your place…