So ex boyfriend comes back into my life…Now what?
I might already know this answer and I shouldn’t be asking but I want to make sure I’m right….I’ve been scarred by many of my relationships and because of it, I’ve sworn off males, I don’t want to date them, I don’t want to see them, nothing pertaining to them. So my ex IM’s me the other day and I feel like we’re back at square one as to when we first started talking again after we split up. We flirted, he started developing feelings, and I just wanted to wrap him around my finger. I’m at that point again where I’m flirting hard core to where he’ll get wrapped around my finger annoy me and we’ll get mad and stop talking to each other…..Why can’t I just leave well enough alone? I like just being friends with him and not developing feelings, not trying to have anyone wrapped around my finger. Why do I do it ??
No we’ve told each other we’re better off as friends….And I told him we’d be flirting and everything in 2 weeks like we were before and he didn’t agree or disagree. I don’t know, I don’t know what to do, I want the attention, I rather him stay away but I feel bad because I know he has no one else to talk or lean onto.
Also he doesn’t really do anything for me but I think I like playing the game…Knowing if I really wanted to, I could control the situation and I’d be happy. How sad am I ?? *LoL*
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i used to be like this from 14-17 i got annoyd so easily pushed guys away after they fell for me, but then i guess i just grew out of it, or i met the one…i met my now fiance when i was 18 and he was the first guy that didnt annoy me or make me want to push him away…you will grow out of this, just try and not talk to him change your screen name…you dont want him, you want the idea of him..
because truth be told u like the attention dont u?
We all do it. You wanted to see if you could still get him like that and when you see that u can u want him to back off.
You probably wrap your fingers around him and lead him on because he probably makes you feel good about yourself and wanted. If you don’t want to repeat the past, tell us what you told him "I just like being friends." Otherwise, trust your gut instincts, and hopefully you won’t regret this. OH by the way, is he worth it? worth working this relationship out.