Relationship on the verge of break up. How can I fix.?
I’m a nineteen year old very mature male and in a relationship. I’m homosexual; if that makes a difference. I’ve know my current boyfriend for 7yrs now. Throughout hs we always talked on and off and recently for the past almost 7months we’ve been dating. This i have to say is my first love. I feel like kyle is the one for me. He makes me very happy.
Recently this week we’ve been having severe communication probs. we’re both in college 200mi away we both work, our schedules conflict. So i’ve talked to him about how i feel he doesnt care and he’s been short with me. And last night i would say i overreacted. He was with his friends and i was at work on break i called him he was short THATS EXPECTED HE WAS WITH HIS FRIENDS. but i had texted him a question that required a one word answer. sent is twice NO RESPONCE. I’m not this lame i wasnt upset with that fact of the text it was that we’ve been talkin about comm and he completely thru it out the window and nowWEmightBreakUp
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Yeah, it sounds like you are trying a lot more than he is. You probably got mad because all of this is building up, you are trying to save your relationship and make it better & it seems like he doesn’t even care. Try to make time to really sit down and have a heart to heart with him. Explain how you are afraid your relationship will end if you guys don’t do something to rectify your communication problems. Since you are both so busy, its extra important for you to find time for each other & the little things count (like answering texts!!). If he isn’t willing to make things better, you may have to think about moving on or taking the relationship down to a more casual level until you guys finish school and have more time to give. Good luck!