if you was in my situation what would you? would consider taking back your ex?
A lot of people tell me that i should go back out with this guy because we was together for two years. Well heres what he did i work and i work from 6:00am in the morning to 4:30pm. well he cheated on me one day that i was at work with on of my friends. so i told my friend that were not friends no longer you should thought.. me and my ex and a argument and i told him i was done that was way to far. he told me that we was going to get married that he loved me that he didnt mean to that it just happened and that he would never hurt me like that again. i just told him that he should have thought through his actions. well he calls me a lot and i just ignore it. i am so heart broken this was 4 months ago. now everyone telling me that i should go back out with him and that i should grow up. i am so hurt that i dont know what to do anymore please help me what do i do.
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Don’t listen to your friends, listen to your gut feeling. How do they expect you to just trust him again. You might want to re-think who you have as friends as well – because it does not seem to me, that they have your best interest at heart.
Good luck to you
Never take back a cheater! What kind of friends are these telling you to take him back? My friends would have kicked his ace 4 months ago.
If he would cheat on you once, he would do it again.
No. You did the right thing. Move on and forget the guy. He screwed up.
Hook up with one of his friends and see if he will take you back. Then if he does say he will take you back, tell him he’s a loser with a tiny wang…works every time.
No i don’t think u should do it. If the tables were turned he would’ve done the same thing so don’t feel bad and u should grow up and move on. U can find a good one. Good luck
Everyone telling you that you should go back out with a guy who cheated on you with your best friend should all grow up themselves! I don’t know what is wrong with your friends, but there is something clearly wrong with them. You are doing the right thing, don’t become week and letting those bugs get passed your ears. You deserve better and you know it. Get some more mature friends or tell them that it is not their business and you don’t want to hear it. You are into better things and he is not one of those things.
I wouldn’t go back!
He did it once he will do it again! You deserve better.
He did it once….odds are he will again……ignore his lame excuses and do what is right for you…
Your not the one that needs to grow up. Your ex is the one to blame in all this, and by the way sleeping with your friend just doesn’t happen. You need to figure out if he’s worth forgiving do not listen to other people because they do not know exactly how you feel. I would not forgive someone who cheated on me especially if he cheated with my friend. He needs to grow up!
I am a man but i have broken up with my girlfriend once or twice over stupid think but that is not the point the point is if you really like him you should still see him and get back together.
I hope this helps
grow up?
because u r reluctant taking back some1 who cheated?
well its clear that they have no idea what it feels like, and when it happends 2 them simply say ‘grow up&get over it’ O.O
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it has been only 4months and its understandable that ur still hurt.give it more time.in the end dont listen to any1, and only u can tell whether he deserves another chance or not.dont let friends get in2 ur business.
Stand you ground girl!
This man claims he doesn’t know why it happened? Then what’s to stop it "just happened" again? How can he guarantee it won’t when he doesn’t know why it did?
Look at it this way. You are involved in a car crash, because the "brakes" failed (that’s his cheating) and you got badly hurt. The mechanic went over the car and can’t find the reason for the failure, but reassures you it "was just a freak accident, and won’t happen again". Would you feel safe in that car? No? Its the same in a relationship.
If the emotional brakes failed in one party, and an affair has occurred, then the only way to be assured that it is at least less likely to occur again is to FIX the reason that they failed in the first place. If you both don’t KNOW (or he claims he doesn’t know) what went wrong, then how can anyone fix anything?
If you are willing to take the chance of it being repaired, take it to the workshop (counseling). If you know you wouldn’t feel safe anymore, then you are well justified in getting rid of it. So do you have any love for your "car"?
I tend to wonder what the hell kind of loving friends would tell someone they say they care about to get back into an unhealthy relationship. How are you supposed to handle knowing that he threw the trust away that you had. Every time he is away from you those insecure moments of distrust will surface you will want him to announce every little thing he did, and every place he goes, who he is with, how many attractive women were there, did anyone hit on him, did he talk to any women the list goes on and on. That is too much work; you are smart and strong that’s why you cut both their skank whoring a$$e$ out of your life and you need to keep it that way no matter how many of your friends tells you differently. Don’t rush into another relationship because that’s what we women do, we don’t feel complete without a man. If it was meant to be would he have actually screwed someone you called a friend God exposes things to us so we don’t stay in situations that are bad for us. Barb Outhere put it perfectly I could not agree more.
Your other answers are correct, do not take him back; you will be begging for punishment from him in the future. He will only change and be loving to you until he does it again. And he will.