How do you know if your man just needs “alone time”? guys input appreciated.?
My boyfriend of two years goes through these cycles where he just needs his alone time I guess. Actually I usually end up taking it personally, thinking something is wrong with the relationship, when actually it has nothing to do with us.
I’m just wondering, when you get to the point of needing your "alone time" because your stressed or whatever, do you not realize that you’re hurting the one your with by being distant and not calling? Or do you just not care? And when you go over it, why do you act like nothing ever happened and go back to your lovable self again?
I don’t get it.
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Funny you mention this..My sister boyfriend just did something like this 2 days ago. (I know..Boys..XD) He started ignoring her and stuff. The best to do this is to give him a little space for a while. Dont call, text, email, IM, nothing. For about…2 days. Then the next time you see him act all flirtatious. But no to obvious. Then he chase right back after you! I have seen done! It works all the time for me! XD
If hes not acting normally or when you talk to him he barely answers back. When that happens just tell him you have to go do something give him a kiss and let him have his alone time.
Just give him the space. He’s probably going through some personal problems or issues that he needs to resolve himself. Or maybe he just wants alone time. Either way, give it to him and when he’s right in the head, he’ll come back missing you more than ever.
BTW, he’s acting very feminine.
Oh Honey, et me tell you..this is my life to the Tee. Guys don’t understand the importance of being open with their mate and I don’t think that they mean it to be rude or selfish in anyway. They just don’t think like we do. I told my friend today, I wish I could be a guy for a month so I could see how they think and live. It seems like nothing is ever a big deal and if they miss a call or go MIA for a week they don’t understand what the big deal is!! I don’t get it either!
We’re human too; the best way is to be honest. Ask him and he will tell you what’s on his mind. If he dosen’t than he probably needs some space. Every relationship needs space like a shuttle…;)