I broke up with him and now I want him back…please! give me your opinion. Not sure if I should do it or not?
I feel confused. I’m 21 years old and the only boyfriend I’ve ever had I dumped back in October after dating him for 4 months. It’s been 5 months since we broke up and the longer I stay single, the more I want him back. He did have his problems (there was a reason I broke up with him) but the more jerks I meet, the more I realize that he wasn’t too bad of a guy and now I want him back but I’m SOOO scared to call him up.
He was pretty upset when I broke up with him but became arrogant and said "give me a few hours and i’ll get over it"…What do I do? I know he had his weaknesses but also lots of good things. I think about him more and more and I’m not sure if part of the reason is because he was my first boyfriend and first kiss (I didn’t get it until I turned 21).
He met my parents before so now I think it would be weird if he just shows up again after 5 months. I met him on a dating site and I’m back on there again and I see his profile on there all the time but I am afraid to DEATH to e-mail him b/c he’ll think i couldn’t find anyone better….idk what to do 
on one hand I know that he really liked me but on the other hand, he’s had dozens of girlfriends before so I’m afraid that he forgot about me…but I still see him on the dating website almost every day so I know he’s still single! I’m afraid I might have hurt him too much and he doesn’t want to give it a chance again
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there’s two ways you can look at this. 1) if you really love him, you can just go for it and start talking to him.maybe not jump to the gun and say"imiss you!!" and get all emotional.just start talking to him maybe as a friend, like how he’s been, that might open a way for you to talk about it because he might say "not that good, cuz im not with you…" and you can respond from there or something. if it was ment to be he would come back to you. ps: him having a lot of gf is kind of a down fall cuz some of them just might convince him not to get back with you. you could try and explain why you broke up with him and realize it was a mistake, because it is your first relationship.
2) or maybe you just really miss him becuase he was your previous bf. you should look back at that time and remind yourself why you broke up with him, and decide if it was a good enough reason or not.dont start to make excuses for him if it was his fault. (it all depends the reason why you broke up with him).
first loves are the hardest to get over.
hope everything goes well….
Well this is an example of the old saying.."You dont know what you have until its gone".All I can tell you to do is call and tell him how you feel,if that doesnt work then give him some space to sort out his feelings.You can not make someone be with you.Just hope for the best and prepare for the worse.
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