http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/comment-page-1/#comment-43638 DiscourseAnalysisDaughter Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:50:13 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/#comment-43638 Read the out of print book "Love and Power in the Step-Family". You can get it interlibrary loan, and maybe from www.abebooks.com. It outlines the various families(power structures) you are dealing with. Get your husband "PET Parent Effectiveness Training". Use that to help him to become the primary parent. You need to contain discusions to the privacy of the two of you, so that you can elevate your own relationship above that of him and the children, or of the children themselves. Learn only to speak for him in his absence, or to defend yourself from abuse. Use statements like "Your father wants you to..." and let the consequences fall from him after you have been able to talk with him privately. There are other blended family books out there if you have more time to read, but this is the best. Read the out of print book "Love and Power in the Step-Family". You can get it interlibrary loan, and maybe from http://www.abebooks.com. It outlines the various families(power structures) you are dealing with. Get your husband "PET Parent Effectiveness Training". Use that to help him to become the primary parent. You need to contain discusions to the privacy of the two of you, so that you can elevate your own relationship above that of him and the children, or of the children themselves. Learn only to speak for him in his absence, or to defend yourself from abuse. Use statements like "Your father wants you to…" and let the consequences fall from him after you have been able to talk with him privately. There are other blended family books out there if you have more time to read, but this is the best.

]]> http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/comment-page-1/#comment-43639 Fireball226 Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:50:13 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/#comment-43639 punishment should work like no phone or grounding and he should back you up too...there are always boot camps if they would prefer to have something like basic training....my 1st husband fought me every step but my kids turned out decent due to me.. punishment should work like no phone or grounding and he should back you up too…there are always boot camps if they would prefer to have something like basic training….my 1st husband fought me every step but my kids turned out decent due to me..

]]> http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/comment-page-1/#comment-43640 pappysgotitgoinon Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:50:13 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/#comment-43640 Your husband needs to take some parenting classes before its too late. From the sounds of it, he needs to step up and be the man for the sake of these children. Tough love will be needed here. Is he man enough for it? Your husband needs to take some parenting classes before its too late. From the sounds of it, he needs to step up and be the man for the sake of these children. Tough love will be needed here. Is he man enough for it?

]]> http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/comment-page-1/#comment-43641 joseph7_28636 Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:50:13 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/#comment-43641 Tell him, "here let me show you how to make them behave,give me your belt."Then wear their butts out and tell him to do this EVERY time they want to misbehave.It is a shame you have to teach him how to be a man and a father.If this doesnt work, either leave or suck it up. Tell him, "here let me show you how to make them behave,give me your belt."Then wear their butts out and tell him to do this EVERY time they want to misbehave.It is a shame you have to teach him how to be a man and a father.If this doesnt work, either leave or suck it up.

]]> http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/comment-page-1/#comment-43642 Frances B Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:50:13 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/6394/how-do-i-save-my-marriage-from-my-passive-husband-and-demonic-step-children/#comment-43642 He needs spinal surgery to see if doctors can insert a spine into his back. He needs spinal surgery to see if doctors can insert a spine into his back.

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