trying to save marriage…?
Okay so our marriage has been having problems ( some already now from before questions) well our anniversary is next week we are planning on going down to the coast for the day packing a cooler and in general reconnecting. So my question. I need ideas for a present for him. besides are card.
well i suppose i was not very clear in my writtings. we are not trying to save our marrage with the picnic we have been actively reaching out and working on our problems. which can all be fixed.
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I’m thinking get you hair done up and put some make up on.. and get a real sexy outfit.. make him proud to be ur husband on the trip.. can’t top that.
Well actually that’s not a question. I don’t have gift ideas either… sorry!
Latin makes a good point. Nothing says I love you like wanting to sex him up!!!
tell him you are breaking up with your boyfriend and he needs to break up with his girlfriend..
Lets face it, sometimes people just don’t get along… just because you’re married doesn’t mean it CAN be fixed.. people just need to move on… fix your marriage? hahahaha! If you want to fix it then you need real help, not a dumb picnic.
Cause when that picnic is over the same problems are still going to be there, sure things might seem fine for a few days or even weeks. But you’ll be back to square one soon. So get real help and get off the internet looking for help.
You need a present that says "I thought about you and what you’d really like" not one that says "we are trying to work on our marriage". What is he into? Hobbies? Interests? Pay attention, and something will come to you….
I agree with latin g except I would do a little more. I would dress up in a very provocative out fit that is risque but public friendly.go out to eat at a fancy restuarant. then after maybe a little dancing or movie go home and dress up in a revealing negligee and maybe some wine and a greetings card that says open me relating to your negligee-have some romance and fun.I’ll stop there as I dont get into really private stuff.
Well you first really need to look into the Deep issues of why you are having trouble. What are you having trouble about? money? sex? infidelity? All those can be fixed. That should help you decide what to do or NOT to do on your "picnic". If its about money.. make sure your doing things for cheap.. if its about sex or cheating.. well then unless its on your part you shouldnt do anything for him anyways…Im not good at planning things.. but all i can do is give you advice on be TOTALLY ALONE… dont bring cell phones, dont go out and do stuff in a public genre. Do things SOLEY alone… latin is right.. get all dolled up, pay extra for hair and makeup.. show him why he is proud to be your husband. Dont bring up ANY of the bad issues… now matter how much you want to. Dont get DRUNK.. but drink a glass of champagne so chill the mood. what did you use to do when you two first started dating? Play cards? Bring some games along, bringa frisbee, bring a volleyball get back to the good old days and do thats that are free and make you enjoy life… take a walk along the beach? You dont need to buy HIM anything.. buy things mutally you two can enjoy together…even as simple as a frisbee and a bottle of champagne.
It’s a cool article indeed. I like what I read in here. I very much agree that you have a bigger chance to save your marriage if you seek for marriage help earlier. I have seen a site that also offers tips on saving marriage, you can visit howtosavemarriages.com