How to get my ex boyfriend back?
My ex boyfriend and i dated for 11 and 1/2 months and he didnt pressure me into anyhting. But i moved to new york and we attempted the long distance thing. Eventually he broke it off in December of last year because I was being too promiscuous. I keep trying to either make him jealous or get him back but nothing works. He said maybe it’ll work in the future but not now. And i kept pushing and pushing adn he finally just said,"Get over me." Now i dont know what to do. I tell myself ive moved on when in truth, im still totally in love with him and each guy im with cant hold a candle to him…I keep looking for replacements and i dont know what to do…
**I recently moved back into the same town that i lived in before i moved, so we see each other at footbal games and whatnot.
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Hello
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back check these 3 recommended steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve the goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t bother your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously make phone calls to him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it’s recommended to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
http://www.backwithextips.com/magic-of-making-up-review
all the best
FORGET HIM!
I just had breakup after 2 yrs, and trust me i am happy with this new guy…
if he is gone he never loved you so no point going behind a guy who does not care about you…
wait until u live closer together again then try hes probably just torn up that he cant be with you everyday and cant live with that pain
Long distance relashionships don’t work at all, it sounds like maybe he could have found someone new and moved on, the best thing to do is if you move back to where you could see him everyday or whatever, then maybe things could work out. It’s not easy to move on from someone from whom you love but long distance relashionships tear two people apart, mostly cause you never get to see the other and you don’t know if they could be cheating on you.When he says maybe it will work in the future i think tat hes saying it will work if you move back cause he dose’nt want to go through a long distance thing that will just hurt you’re relashionship with him, but keep in touch with him and stuff, you could still be friends. The last thing i have to say is if you never move back you will ahve to move on, i know it will be hard and it will take a long time but it would be the best. Good luck
u have to find out if he still have feeling for u then u have to find out if he get any other girls or is going out with any other girls.well just call him talk to him stuff like that ask him how his day was tell him u will always be his loving and caring friend .
Okay girl, if you two live far away from each other, then it’s probably not going to work, Im sorry. You both are going to want a boyfriend/girlfriend who you can see all the time, admit it, & with this situation it sounds like it’s just not going to work. You’re going to/have meet so many new people (boys) & soon enough you won’t think about this guy as much. Anyways I hope this helps, the worst thing you can do is dread over the fact that you two can’t have each other, someone BETTER is waiting out there for you to go and find them. (:
Patience and caution is what you need.
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