How do I get my man back?
I’m married and my husband works out of town. We’ve kept a long distant relationship for a long time now. Things seemed to be up and down for awhile and now I can’t get him to even talk to me on the phone. I desperately don’t want to lose him and I’m losing hope of us staying married. I don’t know if there is any hope for us anymore. How can I win him back?
He worked out of town when I met him a few years ago. We got married and he wanted me to quit my job and go to college. So, I did. I spoke to him over 3 weeks ago and he wanted me to get back into a job and so I have been applying with very little luck. He hasn’t been sending enough money for the bills and didn’t give me fair warning of the change of money in the deposits to come. There is a child involved and bills. I am hurt by what he is doing but I understand why he wants me to work to help out on the bills. I just understand why it is happening like this and what I could do to get him to talk to me about this.. I wonder if it is his pride or he is fed up with being in this family.
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Sounds to me as if he doesn’t want to be married any longer, I suggest you consult a lawyer especially as far as supporting the child is concerned.
If you value this marriage, you better go visit him …permanently. Or vice verse.
It’s hard once it is to the point of not even talking.
If he won’t talk to you on the phone, I think the writing is on the wall. Why aren’t you living with him, if you are married? Long-distance dating relationships are pretty much impossible to maintain, let alone a marriage. If you really want to work on your marriage, high tail it to his home and stay there. That is if it is not too late, and he allows you to move in with him. There is a reason it is called marriage, and that reason is for a couple to live together as a unit, a partnership. You can’t have that when you don’t even live in the same city, much less the same home….sadly, many people do not understand the concept of marriage.
If he is not talking to you why would you want him back. To me it means that there is something more important to him than you. if someone loves you they would talk to you if you called. You need to lose him and move on. He has told you how he feels so accept it and move on…You deserve better for yourself
marriage takes two people, so if he isnt putting into this relationship you have, then he doesnt want to. from seeing my closes friends, a few of them actually, he probably either doesnt love you the same and has found someone else who is much closer.
Your husband has been away far too long without you there to unload his gun. How do you know someone else isn’t? Where has the extra money gone? In view of the fact that you haven’t had success in finding employment where you are currently located, why not pack up and move in with him thus cutting down the expenses of running 2 households? So what if he worked out of town when you met him. You are married now and a family should stay together.